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Replies: 13 — Last Post July 6 11:35am by TaliaBBy
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I already posted this last week but I need more advice...

I'm a girl so I was kinda expecting it to be painful. Anyways my bf was all like "I'll go slow at first." So he did and it was extremely painful. then he started going faster and I figured it would stop hurting but it didn't! and I told him to stop and he said no because "it will help you stop hurting" anyways he would NOT stop and he was getting all rough with me and I couldn't even stand it. I was like screaming at him to stop and like crying and he wouldn't!

Now I'm super pissed at him and I really don't know if I should even talk to him :(


SO I started talking to him again... bad idea?

6:10 am on July 6, 2009
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cherryD


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No you need to talk to him. Tell him it hurts and he should get his penis shrunk.

 

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And the truth is he probably just doesn't have the will to stop and he couldn't stop so he makes some crap excuse and keeps going even if it does hurt you.

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K r e s c e n d o

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I would have thought that keep going would numb the pain.
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DeForest

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Say your boyfriend was, I don't know, stabbing you repeatedly in the gut, verses having sex with you. You scream and yell and tell him it hurts and to stop, but he continues on. Assume you live. Do you really want start talking to someone who obviously doesn't care that you're in pain as long as he gets his jollies?

Bad example, but yeah.

Post edited at 6:16 am on July 6, 2009 by DeForest

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Marry him and have babiez.

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GlassHearts


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Dump the jerk, seriously.

If he cared, he WOULD stop.

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akirashinigami


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You know, where I come from, we call that rape.
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kya469


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Quote: from Anonymous at 9:10 am on July 6, 2009
I already posted this last week but I need more advice...

I'm a girl so I was kinda expecting it to be painful. Anyways my bf was all like "I'll go slow at first." So he did and it was extremely painful. then he started going faster and I figured it would stop hurting but it didn't! and I told him to stop and he said no because "it will help you stop hurting" anyways he would NOT stop and he was getting all rough with me and I couldn't even stand it. I was like screaming at him to stop and like crying and he wouldn't!  

This here is what a lot of folks call rape.

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I'm spotting far too many innuendos in there, I need to masturbate asap.

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RyuKotani90


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you were forced against your will when you said no he didnt listen you should also go check your self to see if there was any damage in your vaginal area
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sesso


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It's rape. You consented at the start, but then asked him to stop so it's still rape.

Leave him. Dump his disgusting ass and never speak to him again! Sooner the better!

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Lillylove


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In the long run he did you a favor. You have to get it done and over with eventually, may as well make it one complete episode. The important thing is to have sex again in several days and keep doing it until it feels wonderful
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Rape .
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