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Just Waiting Here
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Quote: from Kaijuu at 2:53 pm on July 9, 2009
 Quote: from Just Waiting Here at 2:44 pm on July 9, 2009
The people that you are describing don't sound fat and happy to me. This is quite different from someone who's actually content with how they are. You were part of the topic about cutting, and you were trying to explain how cutting works for some. Relate it to this issue. You assume that these people just 'choose' food, yet you don't realize that these people probably eat while feeling guilty. They regret it each time, they hate themselves for it, and yet they can't stop. Some people eat from stress, some eat from depression... some people eat because they don't think they could ever be acceptable by society's standard. It's the same matter in my opinion. Someone who's struggling with weight does't just choose to eat food and complain. Some people are honestly able to eat whatever they want and stay skinny and yet in life that's more appreciative than an individual who may be overweight but still active and a healthy eater. But if someone looks better, but eats at a fast food at least 1-2 times a week, it's better than someone else. All I'm saying is that you seem to making it sound like these people are soley at fault... when really there's a lot more to it than, "just stop eating, and that will solve your problems". Just because you eat or don't exercise doesn't mean you're 'choosing' to be fat... just like if you choose to cut doesn't mean you actually like it and are happy with it. 
I've met plenty of people who are fat and happy.
I even know a girl who looked perfect and made herself fat on purpose. If you cut you can get rid of scars pretty easily. Stretchmarks, extra loose skin, bad eating habits, a large stomach is harder to get rid of.
Not everyone who if fat is fat because they are depressed. Some just enjoy food or don't care about looks or think its too hard to get thin. And because of that they are fat. and because of that they encounter problems and get made fun of.
Of course not. But are the one's that don't care about food or like looks not happy with themselves? Some of them might not be... My point being that you switch back and forth... you talk about those that are fat and happy, but then talk about how they are upset that they can't fit into clothes. You seem to make this umbrella statement, but then mention people that don't fit under it.
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Quote: from Just Waiting Here at 7:54 pm on July 9, 2009
Quote: from Kaijuu at 2:53 pm on July 9, 2009
Quote: from Just Waiting Here at 2:44 pm on July 9, 2009
The people that you are describing don't sound fat and happy to me. This is quite different from someone who's actually content with how they are. You were part of the topic about cutting, and you were trying to explain how cutting works for some. Relate it to this issue. You assume that these people just 'choose' food, yet you don't realize that these people probably eat while feeling guilty. They regret it each time, they hate themselves for it, and yet they can't stop. Some people eat from stress, some eat from depression... some people eat because they don't think they could ever be acceptable by society's standard. It's the same matter in my opinion. Someone who's struggling with weight does't just choose to eat food and complain. Some people are honestly able to eat whatever they want and stay skinny and yet in life that's more appreciative than an individual who may be overweight but still active and a healthy eater. But if someone looks better, but eats at a fast food at least 1-2 times a week, it's better than someone else. All I'm saying is that you seem to making it sound like these people are soley at fault... when really there's a lot more to it than, "just stop eating, and that will solve your problems". Just because you eat or don't exercise doesn't mean you're 'choosing' to be fat... just like if you choose to cut doesn't mean you actually like it and are happy with it.
I've met plenty of people who are fat and happy.
I even know a girl who looked perfect and made herself fat on purpose. If you cut you can get rid of scars pretty easily. Stretchmarks, extra loose skin, bad eating habits, a large stomach is harder to get rid of.
Not everyone who if fat is fat because they are depressed. Some just enjoy food or don't care about looks or think its too hard to get thin. And because of that they are fat. and because of that they encounter problems and get made fun of.
Of course not. But are the one's that don't care about food or like looks not happy with themselves? Some of them might not be... My point being that you switch back and forth... you talk about those that are fat and happy, but then talk about how they are upset that they can't fit into clothes. You seem to make this umbrella statement, but then mention people that don't fit under it.
yeah I'm talking about 2 different types of fat people. whatever i'm bored with this.
I explained everything.
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