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Quote: from dunebug at 1:16 am on July 5, 2009

You obviously need to, and have chosen to, abort. All you can do is take it one day at a time. You have to do what you have to do.  

Then I think you need to take a serious look at your behavior. It's ridiculous for anyone to have three unexpected pregnancies under 20 (I'm assuming). Clearly, you aren't being careful and while it's your body and your right to do whatever, it is difficult to have much sympathy for your plight when you seem to repeat the same mistake over and over.  

If you're not on birth control, it's time to take a look at some. If you are, it's time to chance what kind you're using because it's clearly not working for you. Perhaps a method that requires less maintanence?  

Anyway. Best of luck with it all.


I'm not under 20 first of all. Secondly, I am doing it this upcoming week..Bye bye little one..I am so sorry.

My god, I hate myself.

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Quote: from SilverMoonSparkles at 8:50 pm on July 4, 2009

I am not scared that it will hurt so much as that..I don't know that it won't work or that I'll die..Tho I guess a life for a life is the Earths way of doing things.

I don't know what to do.  

And to the bitch who said lez with a dick? its called a strap on. Grow the fuck up.


If you TRULY feel that the universe has a "life for a life" policy, why are you killing the child? No matter what any medical definition says, there is a living thing in you- it has a heartbeat, it is alive. Because you were irresponsible and had sex that resulted in a pregnancy is not that living things fault. You should own up to your mistakes and do everything you can to ensure your CHILD is taken care of, even if you can't do it.

I'm sorry, I am pro-life (obviously), but I've always been an advocate for the right to chose, but within reason. I think not wanting to go through the embarrassment and other social complications of carrying a child to term isn't a valid reason to kill the child. You weren't raped. You had sex, knowing that that's how babies are made, knowing the consequences. Why punish that child for your mistake?


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Quote: from See Me Now at 9:12 pm on July 5, 2009

Quote: from SilverMoonSparkles at 8:50 pm on July 4, 2009

I am not scared that it will hurt so much as that..I don't know that it won't work or that I'll die..Tho I guess a life for a life is the Earths way of doing things.  

 I don't know what to do.

 And to the bitch who said lez with a dick? its called a strap on. Grow the fuck up.


If you TRULY feel that the universe has a "life for a life" policy, why are you killing the child? No matter what any medical definition says, there is a living thing in you- it has a heartbeat, it is alive. Because you were irresponsible and had sex that resulted in a pregnancy is not that living things fault. You should own up to your mistakes and do everything you can to ensure your CHILD is taken care of, even if you can't do it.  

I'm sorry, I am pro-life (obviously), but I've always been an advocate for the right to chose, but within reason. I think not wanting to go through the embarrassment and other social complications of carrying a child to term isn't a valid reason to kill the child. You weren't raped. You had sex, knowing that that's how babies are made, knowing the consequences. Why punish that child for your mistake?


Who the fuck do you think you are? How do YOU KNOW IF I WAS OR WAS NOT RAPED OR WHAT HAPPENED EH?

Go away. I would have listened to you but not after judging lilke that.

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Okay so are you saying you were raped? There are morning after pills, honey. After being pregnant twice before you should know about all this better.
Now you need to think what you're going to do. If you don't want to keep the baby you should think about adoption.

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 Wow. Three times. Thats messed up. How can you live with your self after making your self miscarry?

 I do believe you should have an abortion. But, only because I don't feel like you are responsible or care enough to take take of a child even when its in your womb.  


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Look all of you who have no idea what you are talking about should just shove it. k? the rest of you thank you. ♥

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Quote: from SilverMoonSparkles at 5:52 pm on July 6, 2009

Look all of you who have no idea what you are talking about should just shove it. k? the rest of you thank you. ♥

This will sound harsh, but I look at a fetus the same as every other small organism or parasite. We've only given it aspirations and personified it, because it's one of us. Unlike everything else we mercilessly destroy in our bodies, this one can make faces. I think it's completely illogical in a lot of cases.

With that said, just abort it. I don't know your story, and I really didn't feel like reading through 4 pages of text as my eyes are crap and my mind is everywhere. Please pardon me.  

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Quote: from StraitjacketJunky at 6:37 am on July 7, 2009

Quote: from SilverMoonSparkles at 5:52 pm on July 6, 2009

Look all of you who have no idea what you are talking about should just shove it. k? the rest of you thank you. ♥

This will sound harsh, but I look at a fetus the same as every other small organism or parasite. We've only given it aspirations and personified it, because it's one of us. Unlike everything else we mercilessly destroy in our bodies, this one can make faces. I think it's completely illogical in a lot of cases.  

With that said, just abort it. I don't know your story, and I really didn't feel like reading through 4 pages of text as my eyes are crap and my mind is everywhere. Please pardon me.


Tomorrow is the day....

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We all have many important decisions to make in life. What to do about an unplanned pregnancy is an important and common decision faced by women. In fact, about half of all women in the U.S. have an unplanned pregnancy at some point in their lives. About 4 out of 10 women with unplanned pregnancies decide to have abortions. Overall, more than 1 out of 3 of all U.S. women will have an abortion by the time they are 45 years old.

Women have abortions because they care about themselves and their families or their future families. The most common reasons a woman decides to have an abortion are  


She is not ready to become a parent.  
She cannot afford a baby.  
She feels that having a baby now would make it too difficult to work, go to school, or care for her children.  
She doesn't want to be a single parent.  
She doesn't want anyone to know she has had sex or is pregnant.  
She feels too young or too immature to have a child.  
She has all the children she wants.  
She or the fetus has a health problem.  
She is a survivor of rape or incest.

Every woman's situation is different, and only you can decide what is best in your case. If you're trying to decide if abortion is the right option for you, you may find it helpful to list the advantages and disadvantages of having an abortion. Think about what advantages or disadvantages are most important to you. Consider how you feel and what you think about abortion, what you want for your life and for your family or future family.

EDIT: I think you should really consider Female sterilization, IUD, implant: Little or nothing to do. Less than 1 pregnancy per 100
women each year.  

Post edited at 12:04 pm on July 7, 2009 by MissPrixy07

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Don't have sex then?

Post edited at 1:17 pm on July 9, 2009 by musicfan3

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Quote: from SilverMoonSparkles at 11:44 pm on July 4, 2009

Me..Once again. I can't do this. I can't have a child. This will make the third one. I've miscarried the other two, one on purpose. I can't..Oh my god.  

Anyways, I don't know quite what to do right now. I am almost 3 months.


im pregnant too.
i had an abortion the first time

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Quote: from musicfan3 at 4:16 pm on July 9, 2009

Don't have sex then?

You obviously didnt bother to read and find things out. I didn't 'just have sex' thanks.

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Quote: from See Me Now at 8:46 pm on July 4, 2009

... you're a lesbian?

Anyway, if you've made it to 3 months, the chances of you miscarrying are down quite a bit. If you can't have a child, will you at least *consider* putting it up for adoption vs killing it?



Killing babies is wrong.

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its..gone

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