I kind of really want to hang out with him, since we haven't hung out together on a weekend for like, 3 weekends now--he's been with his friends.

I don't mind him hanging out with his friends, but I'd like a weekend with him too, and it appears that he might be planning next weekend with them too.

It's even more frustrating since earlier this weekend he SAID he'd hang out with me.  I didn't make him promise anything, because I figured he'd want to change his mind when the time came--and he did--but I was still hoping he'd keep his word and hang out with me.

But I don't want to message him because I talked to him last night by some miracle chance of events.  But I really want him to come pick me up and hang out with me.  But I'm afraid if I message then he's going to get an attitude and I don't want to deal with that.

Grrr....I know it's a minor dilemma, but when there's not much else to do or ponder on, it just gets to me.

So, to message, or not to message.  That is the question.  

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"Energizer Bunny arrested, charged with battery."

I feel your pain. my boyfriend has hung out with his friends all this week. Yesterday he was out of town, but he did get back in time to watch fireworks with me. I figured we could hang out today, but again, he's with his friends.

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Shawty what yo name is

If he's spending more time with his friends than he is with you, maybe you can find out the reason why. Let him know that you miss him and wish to spend some more time with him. Work out some sort of compromise that both of you can agree to. For example, maybe he's avoiding spending time with you because he doesn't get to do the things he normally does with his guy friends. If it's something like playing video games, then maybe one of those nights you and him could try out a game together. You could get him to teach you if he has that sort of patience. The next time he could do something you want to do like an afternoon walking around at the beach.

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Zerg rush!