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My dad saw my gf naked...
Replies: 16 — Last Post July 20 3:03am by ssminow
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We had to go for a piss break during sex so, in the basement, we go. I allowed her to go first and after she finished I proceeded. On her way back to my room I suddenly hear someone say, "i thought the tv was on". I knew then that my father walked into the basement, but did not know what had happened until I confronted my girlfriend.

In my room I asked what had happened and in the breaks of her crying, she had said that he saw her - full - naked body.

This has never happened to me before, but I'm not an idiot. I know embarrassment can lead to break ups. Feeling uncomfortable with - or at - one's house leads to distancing, which inevitably leads to a break up. What should I do?
What can I do?
What should she do?

I do not want to lose her as we have been dating for three years come september.

I will add that staying at my house is the only option I allow: her house is noisy and not to my standards.

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3 years is long enough to secure your relationship in this mishap.

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TELL ME THIS

Did he touch her in inappropriate places?

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you take piss breaks in the middle of sex...??

well that would be embarassing, but nothing that she shouldnt be able to get over. its not THAT big of a deal

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Quote: from Rtheory at 10:49 am on July 20, 2009
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Did he touch her in inappropriate places?

Yes tell us Citizen22

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Not to your standards? That makes you sound like such an asshole.

Just talk to your dad, tell him not mention it or act weird. Let her know she shouldn't feel weird. Or just have her round when your dad's not around.

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talk to your dad about it. make sure that he wont hold it against her or you.

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You definitely need to have this discussion with her and make sure she's not scarred emotionally.

Her house might be a better alternative if you want to keep her. 3 years is a long time to throw away just because her house is "noisy". You may have no choice.

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"not to your standards"?
well im sure she doesnt think your house is appropriate either if your dads around.
stop being fussy.

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Quote: from Chasey at 4:50 am on July 20, 2009
Quote: from Rtheory at 10:49 am on July 20, 2009
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 Did he touch her in inappropriate places?

Yes tell us Citizen22

lmfao

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My father is a single uneducated peice of shit who lucked out with the Canadian government 25 years ago. I, to this day, consider myself to be a misplaced baby.

He actually believes that he has no reason to apologize for walking in on her. It's his house and she should never have been there - in his opinion; however, this same mentality can be placed upon someone who accidentally barges in on someone within a bathroom whom left the door unlocked: "why do I apologize".

She is extremely upset and has already confessed an immanent taboo placed on staying at my house - let alone ever confronting 'him' again.

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Quote: from Slim Shady at 2:51 am on July 20, 2009
Quote: from Chasey at 4:50 am on July 20, 2009
Quote: from Rtheory at 10:49 am on July 20, 2009
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  Did he touch her in inappropriate places?

 

 Yes tell us Citizen22

lmfao

rofl.

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She'll get over it, I mean yes its embarrising, but nothing to cause a break up here.

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As vaguely emphasized in my previous post, I had spoken to my father in a very aggressive manner. He was completely 'innocent' in his eyes, but I beg to differ.

Asking certain questions always leads to subconscious answers and I know he saw more than 'a flash of flesh running to my room'.

She WILL NOT talk to him, period.
I told him what will happen to one of his cars if she breaks up with me over this, or our relationship becomes altered in a manner that creates tension so strong that inevitably leads to a break up...

To-the-point, I can't lose her - especially over this.

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Quote: from citizen22 at 4:59 am on July 20, 2009
As vaguely emphasized in my previous post, I had spoken to my father in a very aggressive manner. He was completely 'innocent' in his eyes, but I beg to differ.

Asking certain questions always leads to subconscious answers and I know he saw more than 'a flash of flesh running to my room'.

She WILL NOT talk to him, period.
I told him what will happen to one of his cars if she breaks up with me over this, or our relationship becomes altered in a manner that creates tension so strong that inevitably leads to a break up...

To-the-point, I can't lose her - especially over this.


lmao you sound like a jerk

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