Edit: I would like an intelligent, cute, sorta petit girl that will let me in her pants if she wanted it too. I'm big on respect, I won't do anything without permission.

Post edited at 9:19 am on July 10, 2009 by Gruadia

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an intelligent girl with a fun personality that wouldnt let you get in their pants???

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this would fulfill me mentally, so i would be less inclined to ask for or need sex

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"tonight were just actors and this is a sitcom so tell me
you love me and tell me ill get some." - Gorilla Zoe

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So i was talkin to some of my guy friends and asking them what matters to them when they look for a girl. All of them were all like "well i only date girls with great personalties" and i was like my ass. All the girls they are dating are the really pretty really easy kind without an intelligent thought in any of their heads. I really want to know if a guy would ratehr date a shallow model look alike pretty girl as long as you could get into their pants, or would you rather date an intelligent girl with a fun personality that wouldnt let you get in their pants???

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I'd rather the intelligent girl for certain. I've tried the other way around, didn't work at all. I can't stand stupid people, period.

As a sort of disclaimer though, I'm FAR from the norm for most guys, especially with relationships. For starters, a close friendship and a relationship are practically identical to me. I enjoy sex, but if someone doesn't want it I can't make that a requirement of a relationship/close friendship. Further, I avoid doing anything with people I don't know yet. This goes much further than physical intimacy. It holds a certain appeal, sure, but I know from experience it's nearly always a bad idea.

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