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Replies: 12 — Last Post July 10 3:55pm by TaliaBBy
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( Speedy21 )


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first of all I am a virgin. my boyfriend and I have messed around alot, for us meaning like oral and dryhumping and stuff. I have been scared of any penetration because I am afraid it is going to hurt...
Well we've been together for quite a few months now and I finally have put my mind at ease to the idea of fingering, so the other day i let him. the first time we "tried" he was real gentle and didnt go in very far at all (even though it felt like a lot to me)

but a couple days later he finally got his middle finger almost all the way in. it pinched a little bit and afterwards i bled a little.

so I guess my question is if that is normal? is my hymen broken or did it just bleed because it was strectching it out a little bit? I dont think my hymen is broken because it bled like a tiny tiny bit, and I think that it would bleed more..


oh and one more question, does this mean losing my virginity will most likely hurt for me if just one finger hurts me?

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Probably so, a penis is a lot bigger than a finger. Your hymen may have tore a bit, That's the only explanation I could give.

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Cum Goblin

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yes. you lost you virginity to a finger.

better yet, a tampon.

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your probably really tight. you probably just popped your cherry.

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That's normal.
When your hymen tears it can bleed, but it's not usually a lot.
And yes, a penis will hurt worse than a finger because a finger is smaller. Your hymen might tear some more.

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are you sure though, even though it only bled like a TINY bit? i thought when youre hymen broke it would bleed at least a moderate amount...
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Every girl is different when it comes to how much she bleeds.

And yes, it'll probably hurt. I'm the exact same way, only a finger hurts me, and sex did/does hurt. I recommend lube and being properly aroused before doing it.

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Quote: from melodramatic at 3:00 pm on July 10, 2009
Probably so, a penis is a lot bigger than a finger. Your hymen may have tore a bit, That's the only explanation I could give.

This

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Quote: from Speedy21 at 3:01 pm on July 10, 2009
are you sure though, even though it only bled like a TINY bit? i thought when youre hymen broke it would bleed at least a moderate amount...

Your cherry being popped isn't like having your period, it's not some deluge of blood. It's usually not very much blood.

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You are still a virgin cause you havent had any penetration, but yeah it's prty normal.

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kawailea2012


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he popped yurr cherry!...with his FINGER
not teared yur vajayjay:p

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( Speedy21 )


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ok thanks everybody. ughhhh well this means i need to get used to it. i feel soo ready to have sex but then i think of just a finger hurting and it is kind of discouraging. i want to though. i guess if it was that horrible of a pain there would be alot more virgins in the world... ha
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TaliaBBy

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Quote: from Speedy21 at 3:01 pm on July 10, 2009
are you sure though, even though it only bled like a TINY bit? i thought when youre hymen broke it would bleed at least a moderate amount...

some dont bleed at all. mine didnt.

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