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melodramatic
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Probably so, a penis is a lot bigger than a finger. Your hymen may have tore a bit, That's the only explanation I could give.
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JuiceStand
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your probably really tight. you probably just popped your cherry.
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Clara Bell
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That's normal.
When your hymen tears it can bleed, but it's not usually a lot.
And yes, a penis will hurt worse than a finger because a finger is smaller. Your hymen might tear some more.
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( Speedy21 )
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are you sure though, even though it only bled like a TINY bit? i thought when youre hymen broke it would bleed at least a moderate amount...
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ViLE
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You are still a virgin cause you havent had any penetration, but yeah it's prty normal.
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kawailea2012
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he popped yurr cherry!...with his FINGER
not teared yur vajayjay:p
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( Speedy21 )
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ok thanks everybody. ughhhh well this means i need to get used to it. i feel soo ready to have sex but then i think of just a finger hurting and it is kind of discouraging. i want to though. i guess if it was that horrible of a pain there would be alot more virgins in the world... ha
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Peacedom
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Older male here with some thoughts to the original poster or anyone else in similar situation..Yes, everyone is different... but as you said Speedy21, a penis is significantly larger than a finger and could hurt a lot more. <p> Can you do anything about that? Here are some thoughts: <p> 1. Go very very slow <p> 2. As others said, get aroused and relaxed. Or relaxed first (massage) then aroused (from e.g. oral) second. <p> 3, Stay in control, at least the first time, since you are the one more likely to be more vulnerable to pain etc. One way is to have him lie on his back and you can slowly gently slower yourself (you can add lubrication on his penis if you worry your natural lubrication isn't enough; every woman is different and there's nothing 'wrong' with you if you need extra lube..use water-based lube) <p> If he feels it's not masculine enough that way, with you in almost total control of the in-out, tell him you think he is sexy and he is just great in any position, including this sexual position.. tell him not to let society's messages that the man should be in control etc, affect him. <p> 4. If you worry or he worries he won't be able to control himself and will want to 'shove' it in, one way to handle that is let him have his orgasm first. Then let him get aroused and erect again, this time he'll have more control. Then use the above steps. <p> Good luck. Remember you each have a lifetime ahead of you to try other positions.. <br> Be loving to yourselves and each other :-) <p> -PD <br> (and to think I bumped into this webpage by searching for the phrase "Vitum est laborum" which google still thinks is on this page..maybe from an older thread..)
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Probably so, a penis is a lot bigger than a finger. Your hymen may have tore a bit, That's the only explanation I could give. 
