I'm a nice guy. I'm a gentleman and girls always come first. I treat them with the utmost kindness and respect. There is this girl that I work with. She is younger than me but she is stunning. One of the prettiest girls I have ever seen. I've been nothing but nice and kind to her. I joke with her and try to make her laugh. I just get the feeling that she doesn't wanna be around me or anyone else at work. It's like shes associating with us because she has to. It's like she thinks she's too good to talk to me or anyone else there. I just don't understand that. Whatever i guess, but it just bothers me sometimes. I don't like people not liking me.  

And she treats me like shit. I mean it's not like I have any kind of relationship going on with her, not even a friendship. But I try and talk to her but she just treats me like shit. I've thought about the possibility that maybe she is just trying to make sure she doesn't lead me on. Maybe. A girl like that is easy to fall for. But when she's an asshole to you, you can't fall for her.

Other than that, theres really no contact with me and girls. Though I wish there was. I'm just too bad at socializing.

Post edited at 11:47 pm on July 10, 2009 by Mr Serious

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Mr. Serious, I think you need to get serious about this situation.
DUMP HER ASS.

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R-tard.

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I'm a nice guy. I'm a gentleman and girls always come first. I treat them with the utmost kindness and respect.  

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This, unfortunately, is where you are going wrong. Most girls don't like 'nice'. They do like respect, but only if you're still interesting with it.

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Quote: from Mr Serious at 6:46 pm on July 11, 2009

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I'm a nice guy. I'm a gentleman and girls always come first. I treat them with the utmost kindness and respect.

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This, unfortunately, is where you are going wrong. Most girls don't like 'nice'. They do like respect, but only if you're still interesting with it.

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Fuck it then. Because I don't know how to be mean. I can't be mean to a girl. Fuck it.

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How do you mean that she treats you like shit, though? Is she just being distant or is she really like being rude?

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Wow. Story of my fucking life right now.

How do you mean that she treats you like shit, though? Is she just being distant or is she really like being rude?

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She's rude.

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Quote: from blackbandaid at 11:49 pm on July 10, 2009

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Quote: from Mr Serious at 6:46 pm on July 11, 2009

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  I'm a nice guy. I'm a gentleman and girls always come first. I treat them with the utmost kindness and respect.  

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 This, unfortunately, is where you are going wrong. Most girls don't like 'nice'. They do like respect, but only if you're still interesting with it.

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Fuck it then. Because I don't know how to be mean. I can't be mean to a girl. Fuck it.

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I mean, a gentleman is always great but you also need to appear interesting and well-groomed. Hit the gym, update the wardrobe a bit and get involved in something you're interested in. When it seems like you've got your own thing going on, girls will notice.

Also, the girl you mentioned in this post sounds like a bitch. I know plenty of gorgeous girls who AREN'T rude to guys. If she's being mean to you so she won't lead you on, that makes no sense to me, unless you come off as super-creepy.

NEVER treat anyone like they're better than you (always starting the convo, acting super-interested in them). Be friendly, but treat people how they treat you.

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Quote: from blackbandaid at 11:49 pm on July 10, 2009

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Quote: from Mr Serious at 6:46 pm on July 11, 2009

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  I'm a nice guy. I'm a gentleman and girls always come first. I treat them with the utmost kindness and respect.  

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 This, unfortunately, is where you are going wrong. Most girls don't like 'nice'. They do like respect, but only if you're still interesting with it.

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Fuck it then. Because I don't know how to be mean. I can't be mean to a girl. Fuck it.

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It's not about being mean. It's about not being a boring push over. Sorry but that's just how it is. You don't have to be abusive, you just have to be less 'nice' all the time. They'll respect you for it.

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We've seen those mountains kneeling, felten and grey
We thought our very hearts would up and melt away
vivere senza rimpianti

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Hmm... maybe you're not presenting yourself the right way?

I mean, a gentleman is always great but you also need to appear interesting and well-groomed. Hit the gym, update the wardrobe a bit and get involved in something you're interested in. When it seems like you've got your own thing going on, girls will notice.  

Also, the girl you mentioned in this post sounds like a bitch. I know plenty of gorgeous girls who AREN'T rude to guys. If she's being mean to you so she won't lead you on, that makes no sense to me, unless you come off as super-creepy.  

NEVER treat anyone like they're better than you (always starting the convo, acting super-interested in them). Be friendly, but treat people how they treat you.

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lol. I'm not creepy at all. I try my best with my physical appearance and condition. But it just never seems like girls notice. I mean, I think I look really good... I get comments all the time, from girls I have no interest in.

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Quote: from Ggina at 11:55 pm on July 10, 2009

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Hmm... maybe you're not presenting yourself the right way?  

 I mean, a gentleman is always great but you also need to appear interesting and well-groomed. Hit the gym, update the wardrobe a bit and get involved in something you're interested in. When it seems like you've got your own thing going on, girls will notice.

 Also, the girl you mentioned in this post sounds like a bitch. I know plenty of gorgeous girls who AREN'T rude to guys. If she's being mean to you so she won't lead you on, that makes no sense to me, unless you come off as super-creepy.

 NEVER treat anyone like they're better than you (always starting the convo, acting super-interested in them). Be friendly, but treat people how they treat you.

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lol. I'm not creepy at all. I try my best with my physical appearance and condition. But it just never seems like girls notice. I mean, I think I look really good... I get comments all the time, from girls I have no interest in.

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Consider the possibility that you are setting your standards too high, and should be paying more attention to the girls who do notice you.

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We've seen those mountains kneeling, felten and grey
We thought our very hearts would up and melt away
vivere senza rimpianti

You don't need to be mean to a girl, but stand up for yourself. If this girl is treating you like shit, stop talking to her. Give her the silent treatment, only address her when you need to for work. Talk about other girls in front of her, talk about things you're involved with.

Decent people don't treat others like pieces of shit, end of story.

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Consider the possibility that you are setting your standards too high, and should be paying more attention to the girls who do notice you.

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I have considered that. But I have come to the conclusion that I am not ready to settle yet. There are so many pretty girls out there. Do they all want a guy that looks like brad pitt?

Post edited at 12:01 am on July 11, 2009 by Mr Serious

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