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Overreacting?
How would you react?
Replies: 7Last Post July 11 11:01am by LoveKay
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So he goes to an exam, and I go to the gym. It`s obvious I will finish around the time he finishes his 2-hour exam. I phone him, and he tells me he`s already gone home.
Is this thoughtless? Or am I over reacting?
And I  was the one who phoned!
He never phones me, I always have to phone him. And he never tells me his plans. Am I being controlling? Or is this justified, since I AM in a foreign country and living with him?

It annoys me

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So what if he has gone home already? I don't get what the problem is--did you two have plans together for afterwards? If not, then yes, you are definitely overreacting!

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But should he not have at least mentioned it? It was pretty obvious I was going to wait around for him if we finished at the same time

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I think kind of, unless you find it difficult to get back to his. If you're in a foreign country, it would be nice for him to be a bit more considerate.

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Quote: from ferakin at 6:23 pm on July 11, 2009

But should he not have at least mentioned it? It was pretty obvious I was going to wait around for him if we finished at the same time

its not necessarily obvious. you shouldn't just assume just things -- men don't think that way

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Quote: from Spice at 10:24 am on July 11, 2009

Quote: from ferakin at 6:23 pm on July 11, 2009

But should he not have at least mentioned it? It was pretty obvious I was going to wait around for him if we finished at the same time

its not necessarily obvious. you shouldn't just assume just things -- men don't think that way


indeed, men are generally much more thoughtless. but i just think it would be nice if he even considered me! sometimes i just dont get it. hes a lot busier than me, with work and classes, but sometimes really unthoughtful. even littler stuff like not saying thankyou for some sweets i just bought him, or not saying please when he wants something.
i realise sometimes i overreact, but i dont think this is necessarily overreacting?


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I think the best thing to do is to voice these concerns to him, just say you feel a little underappreciated and it would be nice to be recognised and thought of every so often, and that you recognise he leads a busy life

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Quote: from ferakin at 11:23 am on July 11, 2009

But should he not have at least mentioned it? It was pretty obvious I was going to wait around for him if we finished at the same time
Don't assume. He obviously didn't. Men don't generally need to spend every possible moment with their girlfriends.

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