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But complicated.
Replies: 8 — Last Post July 14 12:15pm by CrazyGrrl4U
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Okay. So I've been off and on involved with this guy (T) for over 2 years. We've never dated, just hung out as friends, messed around, and have sex. Kind of like a FWB thing. But I have feelings for him. And sometimes I think he does for me, but he won't committ for shit. And so he's made me afraid to date other people for the reason that I'm afraid if I do, any chance I do have with him will be ruined. Even though he HAS done the same thing to me before and it's very possible he could do it again.

Well this guy (P) has been talking to me recently. He's alright looking, and really sweet, and is wanting to talk with me like relationship-wise...

My question is, should I stop talking to P (which is the guy I don't like near as much as T) to continue waiting on T? Or should I just tell T that I'm going to see other people until he decides to make up his mind for which he'll get pissed at me for?

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Do the secong option

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Don't wait around for someone you might never make it with.

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The latter. it benefits you more.

which is what you should be doing at this stage in your life

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Tell T you're going to see other people until he decides to make up his mind.

There's not reason to wait if another guy is there for you.

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Wow I am in the exact same position as you.
Up to this point I've turned down at least three guys because I keep hoping that this other guy will come back to me.

But now I'm thinking that he's just jerking me around and that I need to move on.

If these other guys are into you, you should give them a chance. It's the least you can do and more that T will ever do for you.

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Just ask T if he has true feelings for you, if he doesn't then go for P.

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Go for p. T is at loss for not making the committment.

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you shouldnt deny yourself other potential relationships because you're waiting around on some guy. you could be missing out on something that could be great. if in two year this guy "T" has committed than chances are he may never. so just move on.

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