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Yes, this question is serious.

I was making out with my boyfriend and we were dry humping, kissing... normal messing around stuff.
Well, I went to use my hands on him, for the first time, and he lost his erection!

We had been making out and dry humping for over an hour... and we took a break before I started trying to jerk him off... He said that his thing was just tired, and that it had nothing to do with me.

I tried jerking him off for like 10 minutes, shouldn't he have came?
He's a virgin and so am I... he's never had anyone touch him like that before, so I thought he would cum right away...
He didn't get hard again for the rest of the night.. until he went home... (he told me that..)

Is what happened normal, or is something wrong?
Was he not turned on by me anymore?

He was hard before, so I don't get why he went soft when I was trying to get him off?

Could this be a sign that he is gay?

I'm confused.

Thanks.

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2. Nerves, ease into it. He prob jerked before he came over.

3. Hes not gay trust me, i hit on him last week and he didnt even ask for my number. lolz

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So why did I do it? I could offer a million answers, all false.
The truth is that I'm a bad person, but that's going to change.
I'm going to change.

Gay?   Why would you suggest this?  This is mean of you to even mention it.  

It is not uncommon for this to happen to guys and those that say it's never happened it will at some point.  If this is his first time then you can blame it on nervousness.  If you think there is a lot of pressure on gals it is nothing compared to a guy's first time.  After all, our egos and our penis are hot wired together.

Sometimes there are other things that cause impotency to happen, such as; drugs and alcohol.

My suggestion to you would be to forget about it and pretend it never happened.  Trust me, he is humiliated enough.