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doing the wrong things to look for love
please help, kinda long story
Replies: 7 — Last Post July 10 9:41pm by ParkerJai
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idk what to do .
and please if your just gonna bitch at me and judge, then just click back ...
seee the thing is... im 15, and i lost my virginity when i was 14, to my boyfriend, we dated for 17 months. He was my first everything, and when we broke up, lots of guys started to notice me. I knew they just wanted to fuck me though, so i tried to just stick to harmless flirting. But sooner rather than later, i slipped up and i had sex with this guy, i didnt even like him..i was drunk and idk why i did it ! But i just tried to forget about it, then his friend, who i actually kinda wanted to get to know, started flirting with me, and we got to talking , and he made me think i had a chance with him, so yet again, i slipped up. And then last but not least theres this guy i like right now, and i already fucking let it slip, and idk why ! i just wanna feel the love i know i can feel again. The way i felt with my ex, but i dont want him...i just wanna be loved..and im trying everything i can, just hoping im gonna magically feel that way when one of these guys touches me...and the worst part is, i havent got my period in 3 months now...idk wtf to do...and its killing me that this one guy, who i like more then any guy i know...he talks to me, but hes such a jerk, but im his best girl friend...i just keep telling myself i can change him but idk... does anyone have any advice as to what i should do with this shitty situation i put myself into.. and if you have any questions to make the situation seem clearer just ask .

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JPW1992


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Pray and give it to the Lord.

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Penis69


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hmm sounds tough, follow your heart, and take things slow don't just slip up
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Quote: from Penis69 at 1:35 am on July 11, 2009
hmm sounds tough, follow your heart, and take things slow don't just slip up

definitely this dear

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i guess i just hope that to one of these guys im gonna be more then just a like a fling :S and thats how they make it seem at first ...

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Gentlemen...we are witnessing the birth of a slut...j/k! :P

Slips=sex?

I don't know what will help you, seeing as you can't control yourself.  So any advice about "keep it together" is useless and there is no other magical advice that will stop you from "slipping" the legs open :/

It's all your own actions and choices...if you don't "keep it together" you'll go down faster than MJ on a lil kid :<

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It kind of sounds like you've developed a situation where you feel the need to express yourself through sex.  When really you should focus on getting to know these guys and figure out if they make you happy outside of the bedroom.  As far as changing people goes i've found that you can never fully change a person.  no matter how hard you work there will always be a fabric of themselves below the surface.  Explore the waters a bit more, try to find someone you feel comfortable with in a non physical relationship, as that's the kind of relationship that's going to last in the long run.

And just remember don't let these guys turn you into a booty call. Stand firm and hold off on the sex until you feel your relationship has advanced to that stage.

Post edited at 9:41 pm on July 10, 2009 by TDC

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ParkerJai


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new pool of guys maybe?? like try talking to guys outside that group... and maybe u shouldnt drink around guys u like until u can learn some self control... i'm not trying to be sarcastic.. i had the same problem for a min

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