there's this guy i've been seeing and i like him but i don't LIKE him.. you know. i think it would be best if we were just friends.. but i don't want to be in a relationship with him. i was trying to tell him how i feel and that it's not working out.. and he got all depressed. he started crying and begging me not to leave him. said he'd kill himself if he had to live without me. which seems very selfish to me... because i wouldn't be able to live with myself if he did anything like that. i feel like he's using my emotions against me.. i don't know what to do...
8:43 pm on June 15, 2009
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kelley187
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ive been in that situation. dump him. get out of it NOW. thats a bad situation and not the kind of person u wanna be with. tell him u'll stay real good friends with him
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speakslowlove
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Seriously. I've throught something like that before.. Get out while you can..
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i want to call him and tell him what a selfish dick he's being to use my emotions and my caring nature to manipulate me and trap me in a situation i don't want to be in.. but his manipulation is working, because if he does something stupid.. i'll live the rest of my life with this incredible guilt hanging over me.. it's emotional blackmail.. and it's so horrible of him to do this to me. i'm so mad about it.. but i just feel stuck..
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