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I can't believe this is happening. Does someone up there want me dead?
Replies: 3Last Post Jan. 27 11:43am by Cyanotype
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I can't believe this. Any of it. First, my mother after bullshitting me for 16 years finally admitted this morning that I ruined her life by existing, and now I'm losing the girl I love most because she thinks I cheated when I didn't. One of these people kept me alive long enough to meet the girl I love with all my heart by telling me she raised me because I was wanted, and now she finally admitted that I'm just a burden, the one person who hadn't admitted that my whole life, and now the girl who has given me a reason to live is breaking up with me because of something I never even let happen. I can't take this anymore, I can't take the really highs followed by the drops like these. I can't. My mom wants to know why I don't care about doing anything most teens want? My gf wants to know why I won't tell anyone the fucked up things about me, even my own parents? Because no one in my life really cares, I really just want everyone to get on with their lives at this point, I'm tired of some last minute savior talking me down, I really just want her to tell me that she's gone and won't be coming back, so I can just go ahead and do what needs to be done at this point.

4:32 pm on Jan. 22, 2009
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your mum does love u and i dont know what went on this morning but i reckon u had a fall out some mums and dads say things they dont mean and as for your GF she has prob been finding an exuse to brack up with you and for that she is a bitch for not telling u sr8t..........
Hope things get better for u soon am shore they will trust me i know what am onn about

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Aw, honey don't talk like that. Break ups happen, sometimes for stupid reasons that no one can understand. It doesn't mean that everything should come to an end. Move on with your life like normal and wait for the next girl to come along. Or you could try to talk some since into your ex, tell your side of the story and explain nothing happened.
   Now about your mom telling you that, I'm sorry to say but some parents are like that. I know how you feel, my own mom is like that quite often. Its sad but no reason to get down. Think of it this way. You have friends that you love unconditionally don't you? Well if so think of them as your family, family is made up of the people that means the most to you and loves you. I believe it just takes you awhile to find them.
  If you need anything at all please feel free to message me. Don't do anything you would regret later on. There are better solutions then the ones being though here. Life will move on and you will get better. Until then I'm always here to talk

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First thing is first, there is no way that you could have ruined her life. That just isn't possible, and there will always be people who care about you and your well being, simply put. Your mother loves you and though it would seem otherwise, there are always going to be maternal instincts that will play a card in her treatment of you.

Now, this girl who believed you were cheating. I can tell that she has a pretty important place in your heart. Break ups happen, and if she doesn't believe that you're a great person, then it's her loss.

Everyone has their highs and their lows, don't let this one get to you because there is always a possibility of a plateau in a great place that could be coming your way. You've got to move on with your life and getting over her is going to be step one.


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