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Metastatic Cancer
Replies: 2 — Last Post Mar. 21 2:15pm by Monroe
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My fiance's father may have metastatic cancer. I wish that there was something that I could do to make my fiance feel better, but he is taking this so hard.. I just hope that he doesn't completely break down.. Being stuck in the house isn't helping but he is finally sleeping so there is nothing more that I can ask for after a long night at the hospital. I just wish I knew how to help him. I hope that no one else has to go through something like this so soon after a grandparent dying.. because this is like hell.. and it kills me to see him like this.

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Hey there
I am very sorry to hear about the struggle that you and the ones you love are experiencing at the moment.
The best thing that you can do is be with him the whole way through.
In the coming months he may go through periods where he wants to be with you all the time and doesnt want to leave your side... usually for security and just knowing that you are still there. Then there may be times when he wants to be alone and withdraw from people, please dont get hurt by this, it is part of his grieving. Just let him know that you are there for him no matter what. Thats what he needs to hear right now.

Once again, I am very sorry to hear this



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I am sorry to hear this, but hope for the best!

You said he may have it, so..maybe he doesn't? Reassure your fiance that all hope isn't lost, and be there to talk to him if he needs it?

It's never hard when you find out someone you love may have a serious illness, but some times things happen. When those bad things do happen, all you can do is hope and pray for the best. Be there with those people, and help them through it. Maybe you can let your fiance know that you are there, and encourage him to help his father through the rough times.

I'm sorry that this is happening to your fiance, though. I wish you the best.

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