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I don't know what to exactly do at this point.
Replies: 1Last Post Mar. 12 9:56pm by greatescape
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So, I really feel as if I need to tell some people about my current situation. This is sort of long story so bare with me.

A few months ago I went to a community teen dance. I brought with me my date and her friend. We planned to have an amazing night because with me I brought a half gallon of whiskey and my date promised me some Adderoll. She promised me that another one of her friends had it for her at the dance.

We get to the dance, each of us well intoxicated. Soon to find out she lied about the drugs, this girl is well known to be a compulsive liar. Anyways at this point I was pretty angry, not due to the fact she didn't have the drugs, but because she had lied to me. Lying, pissing me off more than anything. And it confused why she would lie to me about something so stupid.

Anyways, I left with some friends and came back an hour later to take my date and her friend home. My date came up to me and started mocking me and yelling at me about how she got the drugs and took them all herself. I soon found out she was lying, again. So I proceeded to yell at her and bitch her out. This went on for awhile and she ended up punching me in the stomach and after more arguing I pushed her. Immediately after pushing her I get blind sided, punched and thrown on the ground. The kid who did ran off after. I got up, livid, everyone was around me and overwhelming me. To get away from the bad situation, I ran away, drove off, and went to a party near by.

I someone had narked on me to the police and had told them where I had gone. When they found me I was given more than enough field sobriety tests and passed all of them. They ended up manipulating me into admitting that I had drank alcohol. I received an MIP. But this isn't the bad part, the MIP is getting dropped due to the cops not giving me a breathalyzer when I requested it.

To get to the bad part I found out, months later, that I am charged with Harassment and Public Disturbance. This is all bullshit, me and the girl are completely fine and are actually good friends. She is not going to testify against me in court. But even though the victim is claiming I did nothing wrong, the district attorney is still pressing these charges and hopes to get me put away in a detention center for a year. If this happens I won't graduate on time and won't get to walk with my class. I will have 2 misterminers on my adult record thus taking away a lot of job opportunities.

Even in the police report the girl claimed she wasn't hurt, yet they still have a case against me. I'm leaving out a lot of details but to make sum this up, I didn't do anything to the magnitude this is sought up to be. Me, and everyone at my school, including teachers think this is all bullshit. The district attorney is out to ruin a successful high school students life instead of stopping the meth heads that are ruining our community. By the looks of it I'm fucked, even though everyone except my mom, the DA, and the girls mom and dad; are on my side.

If I were to be sent to a detention center, I will most definably be contemplating suicide. I don't deserve this.    


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Okay, slow down.  In order to be actually convicted of this they need evidence.  If neither of the victims are going to testify against you or want to take further action, I don't understand how they could possibly get a harassment case through.  In order to be charged with harassment someone actually needs to feel harassed.

The public disturbance one could be slightly more tricky if school officials saw something or it's on tape.  That could come back and get you there.  Fighting on school property isn't a good thing.  

Regardless, can you get a lawyer?  It seems like that would be the best thing to do here.  You're clearly on the chopping block as far as the cops go, and it would nice to have someone on your side fighting back.  Even if you can't afford one, you should be able to obtain one for free.  I think that's a good route to take in this situation.

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