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My friend wanted me to join in a.. well, threesome.
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So I'm staying at my friend's house for a vacation. And right now he's at work. But yesterday me, him and his girlfriend got pretty wasted and she asked me if I would be game for a threesome. Saying that she's bi-curious and wants to experiment with me and she knows I've kinda got a crush on my friend.

It would seem interesting to do.. but I'm not really sure if I'd be comfortable doing this..

What should I do?

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I feel like having a threesome with friends with a guy you are actually interested in is a badddd idea.

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If you're uncomfortable don't do it, if you're comfortable do it.
It's not something we can properly decide.

If you have to ask, I'm not confident in saying that you should do it though.

Post edited at 9:35 pm on Mar. 19, 2010 by allenn


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I'm not a fan of threesomes. Ever.

I'd turn it down.

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I've heard they're realllyyyyy awkward and a way to ruin a friendship..

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only if you'll enjoy it strings-free


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it's up to u

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join in on the threesome

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Do itttt.

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if your not comfortable don't do it. plus, if they were drunk they may have said things they may have left unsaid. if she brings it up again have a talk about it

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since u kno them well i think its ok. i cant imagine a 3sum with ppl i dont know well.

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What a funny situation, and unfortunately, not that uncommon.

The thing is about threesomes is that in my experience it never tends to work as an equal threeway. There is always one person, or a couple that get more attention than the other. This can be okay when you're an outsider coming into the fold, and don't really care about the people you're involved with, but if these are people that you've known for a long time then it can complicate all kinds of friendships. Say he finds you physically more attractive than her. Say SHE finds you physically more attractive than him. It won't go unnoticed and you could be seen as being to blame for the breakup of their relationship.

On the other hand, its a hell of an experience, especially if you're a little daring. Being involved with two other people who know each other intimately has certain advantages over a random threeway hookup, and you can't ignore the potential of that.

And the third thing, preexisting feelings. Messy, especially if this is supposed to be a no feelings thing, as this seems to be, what with him having a girlfriend. Sex has the power to make or break pre-existing feelings, so you need to be dead certain about how you feel about him beforehand, because there is a very good chance that he's going to fuck you, and then fuck off so to speak, and go back to shagging her on a regular basis. In my experience its rare for threesomes to take place with the same group of people more than three or four times. Is that enough to get you hooked?

You really have to way things up on the balance here. Is it worth taking the risk?

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Well if shes comfortable with you staying at her at HER boyfriends house for vacation then maybe it could work out.  If your interested you might bring it up but tread carefully since this was a drunken conversation.  Its def an opportunity though.  How many ppl get the chance to do that?

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Be better for you if he got a guy friend to join. From my point of view, 3 somes with two guys is way better than another girl and guy, but then I am not bi, if you are then you might enjoy it but I prefer to be the only pussy in the bed.

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