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Got my best friend pregnant
Replies: 26Last Post Feb. 22, 2010 4:58pm by Para god
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i'm 20 and in college and i recently got my best friend pregnant. i didn't mean to. we got drunk and had sex one time and 6 weeks later she goes to the doc for a check up and is pregnant.

she told me the other day about it and i was in shock. we literally had sex one time. she's getting an abortion but she hates herself for it. i just don't know what to do. she wants to keep the baby but i am in no position for a child right now. this wasn't planned and i hate it so much.

help me. what should i do now?


7:11 pm on Jan. 26, 2010
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do what you BOTH feel is best.

sacrifice will happen.. just talk it out.

consider all options.

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give me the child

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where a condom next time

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this is why you don't drink, you fuck up lives.

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Quote: from Ramellan at 7:12 pm on Jan. 26, 2010

give me the child

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I MEAN CHILD

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KEEP THAT CHILD

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adoption hello????

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keep the baby or give it up for adoption. at least with adoption you can visit the child

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well you could give it to adoption after its birth, or abortion, or you could keep it, but i wouldnt recomend the last one.

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first of all, you're an idiot...now
consider all the options...don't rush into anything...and just...make it right man, you guys REALLY screwed things up

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Do whatever you both think is best. Ask her if she's sure she can handle abortion, and be there for her as much as possible if she decides that for sure. Maybe talk about other options too if she's comfortable with it.

Post edited at 7:15 pm on Jan. 26, 2010 by embracethehate

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Quote: from OzzysGirl at 7:13 pm on Jan. 26, 2010

keep the baby or give it up for adoption. at least with adoption you can visit the child

This.

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Congratulations. It's a boy!

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Just be there for her.

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