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Breaking up is hard to do...
Should I stay or should I go?
Replies: 6Last Post Mar. 11 9:42pm by fantazia
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( emmy350 )

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So, hey don't know if any of you guys remember me...but I'm back with a question with you all...

How do you know when it's time to break up with someone? Like can you just get these feelings and have them eventually go away? Can it be too late?

I feel horrible and have been tossing and turning with this decision every night, trying to figure out if I really want to break up with my girlfriend or not. We've been going out for almost 8 months now and well, I'm just not feeling it right now, I don't know if it's because of school/stress or if I've felt this for a while and have just been putting it down.

The problem is that she really loves me. Like really loves me, everything about me; she's so caring and understanding of me and my faults... Like she's basically everything I could ever ask for in a girl, however, I'm just not feeling it...ugh I don't want to break up with her because I do care for her and I don't want to hurt her, especially when she loves/cares for me so much, that she wants to eventually move in with me and she has even mentioned marriage.

Help!?  

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Take it slow for a bit. It's been somewhat of a long term relationship, so don't make any decisions quickly.

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Pumpkin Guts


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awww what a sucky situation to be in.

all of the breakups i've ever had were within a month of the relationship. i wish i could help.

however, i really think that time will help you know the answer to your question. good luck

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1) I do remember you actually. Hey bro. :D
2) Just tell her that you do love/care for her and whatever, you just want to take things slow in the way of marriage and so on. If nothing else, it'll buy you time.

Good luck, son.

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not to be cruel or anythyng but always remember. itz yur life nd yu shuld be happy. dont stay wit her if yur  not happpy in the long run it will hurt her worse

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If you've really been thinking about it for that long, it's obvious that you're not happy, and you should end things.

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fantazia


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wow, u havea gf now, awesome, show some pics ok...i wanna see

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