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13 year old MISTAKE!
Replies: 12Last Post April 17 12:01am by Noboduneed2kno
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okay so i am in 8th grade and i think my school is the most fucked up school in the whole world, i think we should have our own show. even though i just said what i did i still love my school and wouldn't wanna go anywhere else, but i wanna know h ow you guys feel about my friends mistake. and when i say my friend i actually mean my friend not me. okay so my friend is 13 and she had sex with her BEST FRIENDS boyfriend 2 months ago however everyone in my whole entire school district found out yesterday. her life is ruined. every single person in the high school hates her, even kids younger than us and in other schools heard about it and don't like her...not to mention her mom thinks she deserves more than what she's getting and her cousin called her a whore in front of everyone i feel so bad for her, her ex bestfriend the one she backstabbed posted everything she did on facebook for the whole world to see..and all the tteachers in my school know about it too. i think what she did was horrable and i would prob hate my bff if she did that to me but i dont think she deserves all of this. i want to knwo what you think about it and if you have any advice i could give her    

12:21 pm on Mar. 6, 2010 | Joined: Mar. 2010 | Days Active: 3
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JayJ2010


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1st off 13yr olds shouldnt be having sex.
2nd expecially not with someone elses boyfriend...

but your friend should just take this as a lesson learned. it may seem like the end of the world right now but in time it will become old new. people will stop talking and she can get on with her life. but for the time being shes got to stay strong and not let it get to her head or she will be miserable =]

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xxjust that girlxx


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done that yeah it's not a good idea but people push past the fact they might of loved each other

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Averyck


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be there for her. support her. yeah, she made a mistake. so did i. so did everyone else. it happens. but dont just sit there and watch it happen, help her out. be there to help her up when someone pushes her down. that's my advice to you.

to her, my advice is to hold her head up high. she's got some dignity left, use it! sex is sex, it's nothing more, nothing less. But it's a big deal. so, if the love is there, she shouldn't be ashamed of it. if they broke up, then she is done with that phase of her life and she needs to move on. but like someone said before me, she can't let them get her down, cause that's the worst


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benmoon


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how the f*** did this get around???
I feel srry for her... but again, it was her mistake.

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April Ryan


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If she wasn't drunk or taken advantaged or anything, if she actually made the choise HERSELF to sleep with her BESTFRIENDS BOYFRIEND i think she really deserves everything that she's getting.

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gella


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She definitely deserves what she's getting. why the fuck would you have sex at age 13?

I'm 15 and I'm still a virgin. And I'm planing to sty virgin until i finish collage. It's called self-esteem. It's called Not-losing-urself.

I have had, and still have boyfriends. That doesn't mean i should go around and have sex with them. Sheesh!

She's ruined for good. believe me lol


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Bunniqua


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it wouldnt be the first time something like that happened. I seriously doubt everybody knows who she is and what she did. I'm sure theres gossip yeah but there's probably some exaggeration because most high schoolers could give a shit about some 13 year old slut.

However theres nothing she can really do until the gossip dies down.... just keep swimmin'.


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Aloysius


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People who do stuff like that often have issues in the first place; someone who was happy and healthy with no problems to speak of would not go and screw up their life that badly. You need to find out if there's anything else wrong, I think because I know what it's like to be messed up and do things you regret SO much later. I think that, really, people should leave her alone because it's none of their bussiness. If she wants to have sex, fine as long as she was safe and everything. Also, why is nobody mad at the boy? He's clearly in this JUST as much as she is. It's HIS FAULT too. God, people are so misogynistic here.

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Lostt


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i think that the guys should be treated the same as your friend.. Since he had a girlfriend at the timee.. i mean , why have a girlfriend in the first place if your going to cheat on her? It seems like you havn't mentioned him at all...

Yeaah it is wrong

But yer just like some people said she could have been drunk, and maybe she liked him before her bbf was going out with him and yer things happened.

But seriously wow, like everone knows thats a bit overboard.
this girl had sex with her boyfriend at my school and became pregnant and her bf left her, and likee rumours and that didn't spread everywhere. Like only a few people knew, and people didn't talk about it that much.

And you never know maybe she was pressured or raped ?


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Bondjames


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Well at this day an age sex at 13 well it is young but not uncommon. As for ur friend maybe next time she well think twice about if the guy she is about to have sex with is going to fuck her in the ass in the long run. Hopefully it was good cause she most likely. Not get any for a while

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CrazyCJ


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i agree with everything everyone is saying and if your really her friend stick by her Ive been fucked over by friends but Ive also had friends who stuck around decide what kind of friend you wanna be a shitty friend or an amazing friend and shell probably really need you right now with every thing that is going on.

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Noboduneed2kno


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0.o  13? I'm 13 and I'm a virgin. I think thats too young. And it bad for her. But I don't think what her friend did was right either. I dink know what you should tell her.

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