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I bet you've heard this sixty million times, but, life is what you make it.

No friends? Do you want some? If so, get some. Figure out why you don't have any to begin with, and get some. Are you too quiet, do you tend to blend into the background? If so, start socialising more, start meeting people. Go to parties, go to the library, go to the mall, join an after school group (assuming you're still in school), join a youth group, get a job, volunteer somewhere. Put yourself out into the public. You can't meet people in a tiny box, after all, right?

If you don't have encouragement, then turn that inwards and use it as self-encouragement. Kind of a "hah, In your face, look what I did". Find a goal, whether it be lose some weight, gain some weight, learn a new language, a new skill, a new hobby, find some new friends, look for a job, better your skills in your job area if you've already got one.

Everyone has to deal with the 'nobody I can trust with anthing' thing at least once in life. I wish there were a little device strapped to my wrist that would tell me if this person could be trusted or not, but sadly the only way to find out is to meet people, figure out what they're about; basic trial and error.

Why are you sabotaging your relationships with any potential friends? Are you afraid of getting close to them? You don't have to confess your life's story to them, you know. You can be friends with someone and not have to tell them everything about yourself or give them the keys to your house.

You are not nothing. You're a human being, a person, with a purpose and a life that you're letting sit idle. If you're unhappy with you're life, figure out why, and take the steps to change things. You shouldn't give up, you should buckle down and try to make something out of your life.

Sorry for the short reply, but I didn't have much to go on. If you write back and provide additional information I'll also reply back.

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Credit goes to Hannybananny:

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I bet you've heard this sixty million times, but, life is what you make it.

No friends? Do you want some? If so, get some. Figure out why you don't have any to begin with, and get some. Are you too quiet, do you tend to blend into the background? If so, start socialising more, start meeting people. Go to parties, go to the library, go to the mall, join an after school group (assuming you're still in school), join a youth group, get a job, volunteer somewhere. Put yourself out into the public. You can't meet people in a tiny box, after all, right?

If you don't have encouragement, then turn that inwards and use it as self-encouragement. Kind of a "hah, In your face, look what I did". Find a goal, whether it be lose some weight, gain some weight, learn a new language, a new skill, a new hobby, find some new friends, look for a job, better your skills in your job area if you've already got one.

Everyone has to deal with the 'nobody I can trust with anthing' thing at least once in life. I wish there were a little device strapped to my wrist that would tell me if this person could be trusted or not, but sadly the only way to find out is to meet people, figure out what they're about; basic trial and error.

Why are you sabotaging your relationships with any potential friends? Are you afraid of getting close to them? You don't have to confess your life's story to them, you know. You can be friends with someone and not have to tell them everything about yourself or give them the keys to your house.

You are not nothing. You're a human being, a person, with a purpose and a life that you're letting sit idle. If you're unhappy with you're life, figure out why, and take the steps to change things. You shouldn't give up, you should buckle down and try to make something out of your life.

Sorry for the short reply, but I didn't have much to go on. If you write back and provide additional information I'll also reply back.

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I make friends easily, just something happens always and then they stop talking to me. Ever since I moved away from my close friends, nobody has stayed friends with me for more than a couple months.
None are good friends. I am not afraid of getting close to them. There's just something about me that, after a while, suddenly makes them stay away from me.
I'm not extremely talkative, I take my time in revealing certain things, but I still talk as much as anyone.