My wife has recently brought it to my attention that I am a bit too over protective over her. After thinking about how I've acted in the past I guess I can admit I am a bit over protective of her. Usually when she goes out she'll leave for a few hours or so but sometimes she'll want to go out to a club with her girlfriends and I get bent out of shape about it. Also the majority of the people she knows have backgrounds with bad drugs, I believe this might be the problem to why I am like this. I truly believe her that she wont touch that stuff its just I don't see why you'd want to be around the stuff in the first place? Does this make sense to anyone or am I just crazy? Any advice would be great, I know this problem bugs her as much as she wont admit and I want to fix this to make her happy.
7:45 pm on Nov. 9, 2009
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she can make her own decisions. do you even trust her? my bf kind of wigs out to.
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you're right to feel that way. i mean what kind of married couple still goes to clubs? i believe that if you're not ready to quit the night life and settle down then you're not ready to get married. if my future husband went out to clubs and hung out with druggies then i would feel the same way too
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Well i think it's good that you've recognised it. Is there some kind of relationship counselling you could go to? I think I know where you're coming from, like you trust her, you just don't trust them. I'm not married so I feel like I cant offer any advise that would be helpful. But as they say, the first step is admitting you have a problem.
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thanks for the advice I can only hope my wife actually takes what everyone said into consideration.
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