If your boyfriend has abused the trust in your relationship before by lying, how can he gain the trust back? Because say he says I promise i'm going to bla bla blas house, how will you know if he was actually telling the truth, because he could just lie again?
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For one, it shouldn't be YOU concerned with how he will gain the trust back. He should go out of his way to prove to you. If he hasn't, I doubt much has changed.
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He has to gain it back in time.
You just have to trust him.. If you don't then there's no point in the relationship.
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hes banging that one chick.. im sorry but i know this :/
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thats how i am. ever since i was with my ex an dhe cheatd don me and lied about it both times i always feel like my bf now could be lying but i know he isnt. im just being parinoid i guess
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Once your trust has been broken it takes awhile for the trust in two people to build up again. But if there are signs and stuff and you keep questioning and thinking negatively it is always going to have an negitive output so if you cnt put it in the past i personally would just move on
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depends on how bad you want him...sometimes you just have to trust...but you also have to think about your self...do you want him so bad that you are willing to take the ch ce that he is cheating
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well he should prove himself to you to gain your trust back. If he is serious about the relationship and wants to be with you he will do anything to get it back. If he doesnt seem to care about it then maybe he truly isnt worth it.
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