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i dont trust him
Replies: 4Last Post Nov. 10 3:38am by nik1
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i've been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years.
I've never fully trusted him 100 percent, but then again i've never fully trusted anyone.
6 months into our relationship he lied to me about smoking weed and i caught him high... it doesnt sound like a big deal, but you'll just have to take my word on it since i dont want to explain the whole background story of it to make you see how bad it was.

now he's lying to me about doing shrooms. not that i CARE whether or not he does them (i do a little but i wouldnt try and stop him if he told me he wanted to do them) ... i just care that he has lied to me MULTIPLE times about it.

All this makes me wonder what else he has lied to me about in the past, and what he might lie to me about in the future.

I love him SO much, but I can't be with somebody who I can't trust. I dont know what to do... Break up is what all of you would tell me to do, but i just feel like there's got to be SOMETHING else i could do to fix all this.. but i just dont know what it is.


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tell him you don't care what he does, you just care that he lies to you about it. and you can't trust him when he does that and it'd be a lot easier to just tell the truth than hiding shit and it won't cause problems.

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Balboa923


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you've just gotta make him realize what he's got before it's gone and if he's flat out lying he doesn;t love you as much as you'd hope

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Tell him how you feel

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nik1


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Read your last paragraph again......

If you don't have trust you have NO relationship.

I think its time to look him in the eyes and tell him directly what you are thinking and give him an ultimatum to either stop lying or its time to move on.  I wouldn't put another minute into him if I didn't trust him.  You are wasting your time if you do and only delaying the decision to deal with it.  Do it now or later but time is very important.


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