graham was my bestt best BEST friend. i've known him since i was 7 and we spent every single day together this summer..it was weird, things turned different and before i knew it, i was head over heels for him. we ended up dating...for about 2 months tops and well, it just wasnt working for me... i dumped him twice and asked for him back, he wouldnt take me back. now whenever we talk, all we do is fight...he ditches me when we have plans to just hang out....:[ i'm starting to get used to life without him and it's really not all that bad but i hate the feelings i have fo rhim. now i cant stand him... ijust want things back to the way they were, to where i truly loved him as just my best friend... think things will ever be the same? how do i make them the same?
------- its a good thing i'm wishin, come on sweet thing :)
4:12 pm on Nov. 10, 2009 | Joined: July 2009 | Days Active: 104 Join to learn more about Peace Love DreaVirginia, United States | StraightFemale | Posts: 431 | Points: 1,490
LiveWire Humor
mbs55
Executive
There will always be that rift there. There isn't really anything you can do about it, either.
------- 10/22/78 - 1/28/09...My cousin, my best friend, and my brother...R.I.P.
4:12 pm on Nov. 10, 2009 | Joined: Dec. 2008 | Days Active: 205 Join to learn more about mbs55New Jersey, United States | StraightMale | Posts: 1,515 | Points: 3,817
chipperbaby92
Advisor
try talking to him ive been in a similar situation. and talking it out really does help.
------- living it the fullest RIP CHRIS (:
4:13 pm on Nov. 10, 2009 | Joined: Sep. 2009 | Days Active: 40 Join to learn more about chipperbaby92North Carolina, United States | Bi-curiousFemale | Posts: 238 | Points: 640
LindaRains93
Dairy Product Addict
Well love, i know how you feel. However one thing i do want to point out is the dumping him twice thing. That can be intangled with alot of his feelings here. And him doing this might be a sign he wants to be alone. But i can suggest you just give him space. If you want send him a message and be honest o a "apology" and be clear on how you just want friendship to be there again. Lay things out simply and then let time do the rest. Hopefully things wont be completely damaged and he will come back, it was only for 2 months, but still you never know. The same thing happened to me with my best friend i have known him not for about....hmm...six years now, and i really cant feel the same with him, but we have such a strong friendship the difference is minor.
------- Linda Raines
4:21 pm on Nov. 10, 2009 | Joined: June 2008 | Days Active: 144 Join to learn more about LindaRains93Alabama, United States | StraightFemale | Posts: 1,583 | Points: 3,066
323 users online 
222663 members 
You have 1 new message.
