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On Halloween I did the one thing I will regret for the rest of my fucking life.

It is tearing me apart.

I kissed my ex boyfriend after getting completly paraletic and stoned whilst in a relationship with the one person I want to be with.

Last night he found out thanks to a so called friend.

Now I know it is my fault in the first place so I don't want to hear any of that. I am looking for help with the situation.

Me and my other half spoke last night and we managed to talk about it and we arranged for me to go around today. So I did. Anyway I got there and he was fine and laughy with me until his mum said something to him and he became all moody and ignored me. So we have got nothing sorted out. He doesn't know whether to believe me when I told him what actually happened he beleives the ballshitters that told him in the first palce.
His mum is having a bad input on him and his decisions and she put the idea in his head for me to leave tonight. So I cried all the way home. I cannot lose him. Physicly I cant lose him!

What can I do to prove to him I have told him every detail needed and that I love him?

Please can I actually have help pleaseee!

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Jerome Doe
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hannybananny


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Sorry, but you're going to hear a bit of it. It's not your friends fault for caring enough about "the person you want to be with" to tell him, it's your fault for doing drugs and kissing him. Albeit in my opinion a kiss isn't the end of the world, some people think  it is.

You can't prove to him anything, and why should he believe it when you've been disloyal? It's not as if you can show him a video recording from the previous night, so tell him the truth, and let that be it. The more you flounder around trying to add in little details that make it 'crystal clear you're telling the truth' the more of a liar you'll look like.

I don't mean to be rude, but grow up. You can live without him. You lived before him, you can live after him. If things don't work out, they don't work out. Please don't let yourself become obsessed, wasting the best years of your life yearning after some boy when their are thousands out there that are probably a way better catch than him. Plus, if you do that, and he doesn't actually want to be with you anymore, you'll be putting him through years of drama and stalkery.

Just start thinking before you do things, tell him you love him, and let things go from there.

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just tell him
IN PERSON how sorry you are and how stupid it was and how you never should have let yourself get into that situaton

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And this is why you 1. don't go to parties without your boyfriend 2. if you do go you dont get drunk or smoke weed.

Its your own fault tbh.

You should of told him after it happened.

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