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I had an ultrasound today and I'm 11 weeks pregnant. And I counted back the weeks because I wanted to see when I actually got pregnant, and now I'm worried.

Before I left for college, I hung out with my bf and we had sex. A week later, I went to go visit my friend/ex who was leaving soon for the navy and...cheated on my bf (I don't need to hear how stupid this was, btw. I already know).

I tracked my pregnancy all the way back to that time-frame. And I was on my period when I saw the ex. (it had just started that day)

I feel really terrible right now, because I can't believe I'm having to doubt who the father of my baby is. And I dont know what to do. Is it possible the doctor was off a bit on how far a long I am? Or maybe did I count back wrong? Help...

Please only answer if you have actual fucking advice/help btw.


9:52 am on Nov. 10, 2009
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It could be  the other guy's kid.

Just the VIBE I'm getting.
Only way you'll know is via paternity test.

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Obviously, it could be either of them. But think about it. Ask yourself these questions:

1. Did you use protection for both?
2. Did either of them pull out?

Remember as much as you can about it. However, if you used protection both/neither times, then the only way to know is a paternity test. I'd recomend this anyway.

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You won't know until a paternity test is taken. good luck telling your boyfriend. i don't get people these days.

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Congratulations! You could probably just ask your doctor, and they could tell you when you probably conceived the baby.

Did you use protection? That may help you a little to figure out who's baby it is.

I really wish you luck in your situation. I really don't think it's your ex's baby. If your period had just started, I don't think you would have gotten pregnant.

Now you know to think before you have sex with more than one person. Talk to your boyfriend about it. There's really no way to tell exactly how far along you are. Ask the doctor to help you. Ask your parents, even.

I hope everything works out.

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So, the phrase "Who's Yo Daddy" could apply to your child?
Blood test, as soon as it's born.

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I think, but I'm not sure so you may want to verify this with your doctor, but when you are told the number of weeks pregnant it's based on full cycle weeks.  For example, you had sex with Friend/ex at the start of period, roughly two weeks later you ovulated.  Two weeks after that you missed your first period.  As that point, you got pregnant two weeks ago, but from a Dr's perspective you are 4 wks pregnant.  So if you are 11wks pregnant you actually did the deed nine weeks ago.  But Please verify.  HTH.

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