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My Fiance Staying Hard
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My fiance and I have sex a lot. Most of the time he stays hard as a rock, whether he lasts 30 minutes or 3. Other times he gets super hard and in the middle of sex he will go completely soft. He says he isn't thinking about anything when it happens, and I trust him, he says it isn't me. He's really upset about it, and even brought up seeing a doctor. I don't know if he should see a doctor, it doesn't seem as serious to me as it does to him. This happens maybe once or twice a week, give or take.
He used to be a major alcoholic for several years, but has been sober now for 8 months, so I don't think that could be the cause of it, unless it is long term effects.
Has anyone else had this problem? Should he go see a doctor?

12:26 am on Nov. 10, 2009
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I think seeing a doctor is a pretty obvious answer.

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Yes doctor would help.
Also think about his life. What he does. What are his problems? Does he have many stresses? It could be anything.

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Most impotence problems with young men are related to stress, alcohol or drugs.  Even the side effects of some prescription drugs is impotency.  Lack of rest can also cause problems.  Sleep apnea is another.   The brain plays games with males sometimes.  Our masculinity and virility often direct what we do and any single event of non performance can have a devastating affect on our egos.  It's like the snowball effect.  Once it starts it takes a bit of time to regain our confidence and yet the embarrassment and possibility of it reoccurring lingers in the back of our minds.  This is a good example of the fragility of the male psyche.  My suggestion to you would not make a big deal out of it and try to spice things up a bit my not doing the same old thing over and over at the same place.  Only discuss it with him if he brings it up for awhile.  


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see a doctor
it sounds like its probably a result of the alcoholism


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