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| I would never do it |
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42% |
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| I have never done it but might for the right guy |
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6% |
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| I have never done it but am turned on by the idea |
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6% |
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| I have done it and wish I hadn't |
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6% |
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| I have done it and would do it again |
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12% |
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| I typically have sex on the first date if the guy is cute/cool |
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6% |
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21% |
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I am a college sophomore who has had sex with six guys before. The first two were boyfriends in high school. The third was a BF my freshman year. Since then I have had 3 flings. One was over the summer, just a guy back home I have known for years. Another was the first weekend of the year at school, at a wild party. I was drunk and chalked it up to a mistake I made. But a weird thing happened. even though the sex was kinda bad and I never got with the guy again, I kept thinking about the incident and getting turned on by it. well, so this guy from my chem class asked me out last week and we went out Saturday to dinner and late to this party, where we had drinks and made out. then we went back to his place and did it. And I have been turned on by it ever since. I like this guy a little, but I am not sure if he likes me. But part of me wants to try this again with a different guy. But I also don't want to be a whore. the problem is I can't stop thinking about how much it turned me on to be a little slutty! arghghghg i just don't know what to think about all this!!! (and I used protection so spare me the lecture about that thanks)
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kaly
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the only issue i would take with that is that you probably won't get respect once you've slept with a guy on the first date. if you aren't looking for a longer lasting relationship, have some fun.
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tennisplayerV2
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Get a vibrater and get one with your life! You obviously can get a rep as a slut... no one will want to go out with you cuz they like you... they will go out with you because they want some... DUH
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Strength emotionally will get you anywhere
and 2crazy4you is my boyfriend (been dating for a year)
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I have a vibrator. It doesn't fulfill my fantasy though
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Jaguar
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I think I wanna know you
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lilac
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No, I'd never do it on the first date. I think you should wait a while. Somewhat months to a year maybe. OK, maybe not a year part. But more than a month.
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Ruburi
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Did it. We're together now, though.
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La la love.
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8:06 pm on Nov. 11, 2009 | Joined: Oct. 2009 | Days Active: 29
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MauerMan
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If you're looking for an actual relationship that is not revolved strictly around the meaningless exchange of bodily fluids, than no sex on the first date. Unless you'd like to be categorized as the town slut. If you're horny..invest in a vibrator and a nice online porno service. You don't have to fuck every guy on campus, unless that's your goal in life... (sorry if I'm being a little harsh)
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JennyColada
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It always cracks me up how people always throw around saying like "if you want to be respected" or "if you're looking for a serious relationship." Off the top of my head (which means there are probably more if I really seriously sat down and thought about them), my last four serious relationships all started with one night stands. In fact, two of these serious relationships (one lasting nearly two years) involved us meeting on a swinger's website. I think that there is a lot to be turned on by with casual sex and having sex with a stranger. However, I do think that it's important to realize the difference between needing sex to feel sexy, and feeling sexy and thus wanting sex. Especially when strangers can be so excited by us, it can give us a lot of self confidence, and I think a lot of people (girls especially) can easily fall into the trap of "they want to have sex with me, they must think I'm a great person!" This is not always the case. I've seen many girls bring guy after guy home and, although I'm sure they're all having a great time, the girl feels like complete crap afterwards, even if she's the one to instigate the sex! I don't think that there is anything wrong with falling for a fling. Obviously some of my most fulfilling relationships came out of a one night stand. The most important thing, I think, is understanding the difference between doing something because you want to, and doing something because you want it to change or define who you are.
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Or frightened (Eeek!), or mad (Rats!)
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