That's really horrible. It honestly sounds like a complete (although very unfortunate) accident. He wasn't drunk, and you can't always control what happens if you blow a tire.
I can understand that this person might feel resentment, but that doesn't make the comment any better.
It was NOT your brother's fault, and YOU know that. That is what's important.
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