So this guy and I have been talking for a few months. He initially messaged me and we innocently flirted while I was still with my boyfriend. I broke up with my boyfriend because he was too controlling.
After my boyfriend and I broke up the guy I had been talking to and I fooled around. After that he has distanced himself from me unless he's horny. I talked to him about it and he agreed to talk to me more as a friend (Friends with Benefits for now).
I know he's in love with his best female friend...but she'd never give him a chance (his words, not mine). How do I get him more interested in me and over her?
2:17 pm on Nov. 10, 2009
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jess15
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doubt its possible...you cant make sumone love you
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xcutioners
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This is the sad part..... he sees you more so as a sex-object than a lover. It seems as if he likes you but he has feelings for his best female friend.
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doubt its possible...you cant make sumone love you
I don't want to make him love me...I just want to date him for a little while.
Too late now.
He's shown no signs of interest in relationship with you.
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Chronicprincess
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well you already gave up so nothing.....as your all he wants from you is sex. nothng more. you need to tell him your not gonna just have sex with him you want something more and if he doesnt wanna do that.. then tell him you should just be friends. he doesnt respect you enough then
doubt its possible...you cant make sumone love you
I don't want to make him love me...I just want to date him for a little while.
If he has no feelings for u then e obviouslyt wont want to have a relationship with you
You don't have to love someone to have a relationship. Just like them.
2:29 pm on Nov. 10, 2009
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Tough shit about what you want. Why do all girls think they can run the relationship just because they've been through "nice" or "horny" guys? I guess this guy will be your latest bitch huh sweetheart?
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