-she refuses to let you pay for anything of hers- even simple stuff.
-she'll find her own way home or she'll make a way
-she's the opposite of those girls who are overemotional- always talking about some problem they're having. But instead, she wont tell you anything thats bothering her.

things like those.

Is that a bad thing? Or a good thing?... or just... a thing O_o.

/curiosity

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Hay flores que tienen espinas

Why does she have a life?

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What i mean is:  

-she refuses to let you pay for anything of hers- even simple stuff.  
-she'll find her own way home or she'll make a way  
-she's the opposite of those girls who are overemotional- always talking about some problem they're having. But instead, she wont tell you anything thats bothering her.  

things like those.  

Is that a bad thing? Or a good thing?... or just... a thing O_o.  

/curiosity

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I wouldn't call that independent, I'd call that closed off and withdrawn. I'm sorry, but even the most spacious relationships need openness.

A turn-off? Eh... not exactly, but part of the point of building relationships to me is building emotional intimacy. You can't do that without openness and understanding.

Some of your points aren't clear - talking about your feelings is not being "over emotional," but obsessing over every little detail is.

Post edited at 9:02 pm on Nov. 10, 2009 by Stormblazer

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Religion: Atheistic agnostic, political independent
Polyamory FAQ Relationships

I'd prefer a very close and dependent relationship. I want her to come to me for help and me to be able to go to her for help, and her to want me to. Someone who's closed off so much like that would bother me. That doesn't mean I won't be with them, if I was attracted I'd talk and get them to open up.

Overemotional isn't a problem, I'm very well with dealing with other peoples emotions, and I read them differently than most people so things people would consider bad I often think are great.

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From up here, you can't see any borders.
All you can see is the Earth.
In a sane society, decisions are not made but arrived at.

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What i mean is:

-she refuses to let you pay for anything of hers- even simple stuff.
-she'll find her own way home or she'll make a way
-she's the opposite of those girls who are overemotional- always talking about some problem they're having. But instead, she wont tell you anything thats bothering her.

things like those.

Is that a bad thing? Or a good thing?... or just... a thing O_o.

/curiosity

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She's the female equivalent of the "bad boy".

She'll fuck me off to no end but I know I can "change" her. When she does one little "girly" thing, I will be really happy, but it will be mostly mediocre.

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She's the female equivalent of the "bad boy".  

She'll fuck me off to no end but I know I can "change" her. When she does one little "girly" thing, I will be really happy, but it will be mostly mediocre.

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