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I mean my standards aren't that high lol I want a nice Christian boy who isn't a complete man whore who is nice too look at and I get along with. I do like the stereotypical attractive guys, but I don't discriminate against those who are less than perfect, I almost prefer quirky features sometimes. I think I am an attractive girl. I wear a small amount of makeup and have some nice clothes, although nothing that shows off the "goods" too much. I also think I am pretty nice, I have a good amount of friends and like to have fun... Recently I've had two guys come onto me (recently meaning in the last 48 hours) both not the type of guy I'd go out with. How do I attract someone who I'd be interested in instead of guys that I really wouldn't consider (btw for personality reasons, not physical ones) I think I've also had it happen once where I really liked a guy who developed a crush on me and that was an amazing relationship.
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Aimforthehead
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I stopped after 'Christian' and realized I didn't qualify.
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thats how it always is
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you know there might be a guy out there that isn't christian and you'll fall in love with him...hey opposites do attract...my fiance is outgoing im not, hes loud im quiet, we listen to different types of music, we are both christians though and we love each other
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Quote: from ILoveSteven777 at 9:46 am on Nov. 11, 2009
 you know there might be a guy out there that isn't christian and you'll fall in love with him...hey opposites do attract...my fiance is outgoing im not, hes loud im quiet, we listen to different types of music, we are both christians though and we love each other
Christian is not the most important thing to me, actually my most successful relationship was with a Jewish kid we went out forever until shit happened...
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Quote: from Anonymous at 10:21 am on Nov. 11, 2009
I mean my standards aren't that high lol I want a nice Christian boy who isn't a complete man whore who is nice too look at and I get along with. I do like the stereotypical attractive guys, but I don't discriminate against those who are less than perfect, I almost prefer quirky features sometimes. I think I am an attractive girl. I wear a small amount of makeup and have some nice clothes, although nothing that shows off the "goods" too much. I also think I am pretty nice, I have a good amount of friends and like to have fun... Recently I've had two guys come onto me (recently meaning in the last 48 hours) both not the type of guy I'd go out with. How do I attract someone who I'd be interested in instead of guys that I really wouldn't consider (btw for personality reasons, not physical ones) I think I've also had it happen once where I really liked a guy who developed a crush on me and that was an amazing relationship.
Maybe if you stopped focusing so much on looks? You say personality, but just about everything in your post was about looks, and you seem to think that guys are going to magically come on to you. If you WANT someone, then LOOK. Don't just expect things to fall in your lap.
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Stormblazer
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Quote: from Aimforthehead at 10:24 am on Nov. 11, 2009
I stopped after 'Christian' and realized I didn't qualify.
Hehe, yeah... Christian is really ambiguous actually if you think about it - "Christian" denotes everything from hardcore fundies to the most liberal episcopal church, and the differences tend to have a big impact on personality, not just theology. Even within denominations that can easily be the case - take the recent split of the episcopal church for instance. Most of the southern hemisphere branches recently split because they hated gays and hated the US/Canada/European branches even more for having endorsed homosexuality. Seriously, go read the opinions from each side of the split. The US/canada/european branches expressed regret that they couldn't be more tolerant, and were begging to keep it unified.
The african/nigerian/etc branches were screaming fire and brimstone and such. Hell, the branch in Nigeria keeps trying to push legislation to actively prosecute gays/lesbians, public or private. Point is, theology influences personality.
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Quote: from Stormblazer at 11:04 am on Nov. 11, 2009
Quote: from Anonymous at 10:21 am on Nov. 11, 2009
I mean my standards aren't that high lol I want a nice Christian boy who isn't a complete man whore who is nice too look at and I get along with. I do like the stereotypical attractive guys, but I don't discriminate against those who are less than perfect, I almost prefer quirky features sometimes. I think I am an attractive girl. I wear a small amount of makeup and have some nice clothes, although nothing that shows off the "goods" too much. I also think I am pretty nice, I have a good amount of friends and like to have fun... Recently I've had two guys come onto me (recently meaning in the last 48 hours) both not the type of guy I'd go out with. How do I attract someone who I'd be interested in instead of guys that I really wouldn't consider (btw for personality reasons, not physical ones) I think I've also had it happen once where I really liked a guy who developed a crush on me and that was an amazing relationship.
Maybe if you stopped focusing so much on looks? You say personality, but just about everything in your post was about looks, and you seem to think that guys are going to magically come on to you. If you WANT someone, then LOOK. Don't just expect things to fall in your lap.
How is "nice Christian boy who isn't a complete man whore" all about looks? I mean of course I want to be with an attractive guy, but you make it seem like that's a bad thing. Looks definitely don't come first in my book and trust me I'm trying to get to know people (of all shapes, sizes, races, and ethnicities thank you very much) because I want to get to know them and because I believe the best, longest lasting and most meaningful relationships come from people who already knew each other and were friends.
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