The first time we had sex it lasted less than a minute. I actually kinda thought it was hot because I really liked him and I could tell I turned him on bad.

The second time, he lasted a lil longer and I though, Aww that's kinda cute. He's still turned on by me.

The next 10 times it happened I got more and more like WTF?! I was a major turnoff that he could not last more than a minute or two. Other guys I have slept with go at least 10-15 minutes usually, and I had never had a guy pop in under 5 minutes that I could remember. Of course, I dated mostly older boys, but still ...

This guy is my age. He's the nicest boy I have dated, and I think I love him. Everything is great ... except the sex. I think he's trying. We have tried just about everything, and other than one time he usually busts his load crazy fast. He blames it on my serious hotness lol.

So now I am like, eh whatever ... this is what girls have vibrators for lol.  

anyone else share this feeling???

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My boyfriend lasts about 30-120 minutes depending on the mood he's in, maybe you shouldn't rush it, make him wear two condoms or get the stamina condoms made by Durex, apparently they add about 15 minutes, so could boost it to 17 minutes...

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NEVER make him use 2 condoms at the SAME TIME! They can brust easyly when its only 1, and 2 or more increase friction, so brusting is a lot easyer. NEVER do it.

My BF usually last about 30-40min, because we want to have sex and not just get off.

ps. how old r u? Im 19 *20 i a month) and he is 21.

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ps. how old r u? Im 19 *20 i a month) and he is 21.

Believe me, I want to have sex too. I am pretty experienced for my age. I am 18 and have slept with seven guys before. I know, I know, sounds like a lot. But I had a BF for a year in 8th grade and before we started HS we decided to have sex. Ever since then I have been sexually active.

He is 18 also. We are both college freshmen. He said he has had sex with 2 girls before me.

And I have been really nice to him about it. He said he wanted to last longer, and I told him that he should feel no pressure to perform (OK I lied) and that I really do like him. I do. I really do. But I am a very kinky girl, and I have sexual expectations. I know that sounds weird, but ...

I don't think this is any different than complaining about a guy hanging out with his friends too much or watching too much sports or not cleaning his room, etc. They are not the most important things in a relationship, but they are something.

am I being too critical??? I know I am not the only one who is turned off by a boy prematurely ejaculating every single time. The only good thing is that a blow job literally takes me 2 minutes. Easiest work I ever have done!  

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Try giving him head beforehand and making him cum and then give him 5 -10 minutes to get hard again just make out and let him play with u and then have sex, should make him last longer. Also tell her to jerk off before he comes over to see u or smnt.  
i think its something he has to learn how to control, and i think he will with time. He's very inexperienced from what I read, jsut give him time.

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Oh we've tried this. I blow him (2 min) and then like half hour later we try sex. It usually takes him a while to get hard, but then when he is he's horny again and maaaaaaybe lasts 3-4 minutes.

It usually takes me a while to orgasm from sex. Sorry, I know it sounds like I am whining here ...

i have deep sympathy for the poster. Tell ur boyfriend to go seek some sort of medical help.

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hmm thanks for the support though