But honestly it kills me a little bit inside hearing everyone complain about how some guy used them, or how some guy was being a jackass about a situation "BUT I STILL LUV HIM!!!!!!"

Whereas I'm like, doing everything in my power to make lives more pleasant for everyone, and finding nobody.

Yeah I'm a nice guy. I've heard it all before, nice guys finish last, dicks get all the girls. So overused, and people always think they're intelligent when they say it, as if they've got it all figured out. But that's just who I am, and I hate admitting it because it seems arrogant.

But I don't want to become a ghost, that guy who people forget because they dwell in their basement at age 30.

It seems increasingly likely every day. Scary stuff!

Also, my sex drive is dead for every gender and I feel unable to commit into any sort of relationship other than friendship anyway. What does this mean?

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Don't stop.

Just give it time, that person is out there.

Post edited at 6:27 pm on Nov. 10, 2009 by Ashaia

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It means you really should get out of your mommy's basement more often. Instead of being some pussy whining about trying to make other people's lives bette, try getting one of you own.

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I don't live with my mom, and we didn't even have a basement.

I don't try to make people's lives better, I do it. Unlike you.

I have my own life, it's fulfilling to an extent. But my main question was at the end of my post, if your mind can understand that okay?

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You may just be asexual

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Honestly? What constitutes being asexual?

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"assholes" tend to be confident because they are "assholes". It just sort of tends to go hand in hand. "nice guy" just refers to pussys, people with no confidence and no presence and discernable opinionated passion about much of anything. They try to please the girl they like to much rather than more or less just co-existing with them. It's not fun to have someone whos always agreeing with you and acts like your bitch. I mean it's cool to have someone you agree with alot or even all the time, but not if it's in a "nice guy" kind of way. Not if he has all the traits of someone just trying to be your bitch or please you.

But "nice guy" and "asshole" do not exist in the real world in that way. It should be "pussys" and "confident-guys". Then it all makes sense doesn't it? "Pussys finish last and confident-guys get all the girls". Sounds about right. Everything else just hinges around that. A confident guy can be nice or an asshole. A pussy just tends to be a pussy, but they can be passive agressive assholes I guess.

Go live life.

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ROW ROW FIGHT THE POWAH

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Don't say I'm a "nice guy". Not in that way anyways. Girls don't like dicks, thats a ridiculous misconception. They like confidence because people without confidence are insufferable as partners, and people with confidence are noticably more fun and such. Plus most girls naturally are submissive (in a sexual way) and thus tend to be naturally attracted to confidence.

"assholes" tend to be confident because they are "assholes". It just sort of tends to go hand in hand. "nice guy" just refers to pussys, people with no confidence and no presence and discernable opinionated passion about much of anything. They try to please the girl they like to much rather than more or less just co-existing with them. It's not fun to have someone whos always agreeing with you and acts like your bitch. I mean it's cool to have someone you agree with alot or even all the time, but not if it's in a "nice guy" kind of way. Not if he has all the traits of someone just trying to be your bitch or please you.  

But "nice guy" and "asshole" do not exist in the real world in that way. It should be "pussys" and "confident-guys". Then it all makes sense doesn't it? "Pussys finish last and confident-guys get all the girls". Sounds about right. Everything else just hinges around that. A confident guy can be nice or an asshole. A pussy just tends to be a pussy, but they can be passive agressive assholes I guess.

Go live life.

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Thanks for the suggestion about living life, I'll continue doing so.

I don't appreciate you calling me a pussy though, or insinuating I have little confidence. Arrogance aside, I have a metric ton of confidence. I'm just not a dick about it. Somewhat conversely, I'm a quiet bloke, so my advances are often pretty covert and well thought out.

I do agree with you though about women being generally more submissive, not just in a sexual way but numerous ways.

You've basically given me some information in your response and answered my final question. I can't ever stop being the guy who I am. I'm contented with looking out for everyone. I wish someone loved me for that, but we can't have it all. As I said, I don't even want to particularly engage in a relationship with a girl just because they're far too dramatic and too much hassle. Creating problems and issues for their completely power-hungry minds.

So my final question was answered, thank you; I believe I am asexual.

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Women being naturally submissive? You two really are dumbasses.

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"[most women are] naturally submissive (in a sexual way)"

How are most women not naturally sumbissive sexually?

I'm really interested. You know, since it tends to be the girl saying "fuck me" and the guy spanking her and the inverse tends to be the minority.

Or since we have evolved to be a species that naturally partners up for the purpose of having a man take care of a women so a women can devote all of her time to take care of a child because human children take much longer to mature than most animals.

But really, I'm interested if you can show me that women aren't naturally the submissive gender in the human species.

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Post edited at 11:00 pm on Nov. 10, 2009 by Imessedup2

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Quote: from Imessedup2 at 7:05 pm on Nov. 10, 2009

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Women being naturally submissive? You two really are dumbasses.

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"[most women are] naturally submissive (in a sexual way)"

How are most women not naturally sumbissive sexually?

I'm really interested. You know, since it tends to be the girl saying "fuck me" and the guy spanking her and the inverse tends to be the minority.

Or since we have evolved to be a species that naturally partners up for the purpose of having a man take care of a women so a women can devote all of her time to take care of a child because human children take much longer to mature than most animals.

But really, I'm interested if you can show me that women aren't naturally the submissive gender in the human species.

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This guy is correct.

Quote: from Imessedup2 at 10:58 pm on Nov. 10, 2009

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Wow. please tell me that you don't really believe that stupid shit! I mean the thought of you dragging some poor girl back to your cave by her hair to serve your needs really scares me there, Mr. Neanderthal.

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You are not.

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