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Alright, I recently learned that a friend of mine has never masturbated. It's not that she's sheltered, she just hasn't really tried (she's not a virgin either - she has a fiance that unfortunately is away for at least another year, long story).
So, after discovering that her sex drive is, as a result, pretty much always running on high, I advised her that she try masturbation.

Trouble is, I'm a guy. Advice I can give from first-hand experience is obviously somewhat limited.

Anyone know some tips that aren't obvious?


8:42 pm on Nov. 1, 2009
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I don't believe you should be talking about masturbation to this girl who is engaged.

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She should just experiment with it herself.

You shouldn't really be giving tips.

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Quote: from Monroe at 8:43 pm on Nov. 1, 2009

I don't believe you should be talking about masturbation to this girl who is engaged.

same here

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Dont even try!



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tell her to talk to her girl friends

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Meh the biggest tip you could give her is to just have fun with it and do what feels good. Don't over complicate it.

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Quote: from Monroe at 11:43 pm on Nov. 1, 2009

I don't believe you should be talking about masturbation to this girl who is engaged.

He's helping. He's her best friend. I think it's best that he does.

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Quote: from SomeRandomKid at 10:44 pm on Nov. 1, 2009

Quote: from Monroe at 11:43 pm on Nov. 1, 2009

I don't believe you should be talking about masturbation to this girl who is engaged.

He's helping. He's her best friend. I think it's best that he does.


He said, "a friend of mine" not best friend. And best friend or not, a male friend shouldn't be giving a female friend whom is engaged tips on masturbating.

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Quote: from Monroe at 11:43 pm on Nov. 1, 2009

I don't believe you should be talking about masturbation to this girl who is engaged.

Indeed.

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Quote: from Monroe at 9:43 pm on Nov. 1, 2009

I don't believe you should be talking about masturbation to this girl who is engaged.
And why not? Just because she's engaged doesn't mean she's suddenly not allowed to talk about sex, and both her and her fiance would agree with me on that... Besides, I'm one of the few friends she has that can talk to her without hitting on her (I like her, but in a platonic way).

8:48 pm on Nov. 1, 2009
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get a girl to talk to her about it

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Quote: from Monroe at 11:45 pm on Nov. 1, 2009

Quote: from SomeRandomKid at 10:44 pm on Nov. 1, 2009

Quote: from Monroe at 11:43 pm on Nov. 1, 2009

I don't believe you should be talking about masturbation to this girl who is engaged.
 

 He's helping. He's her best friend. I think it's best that he does.


He said, "a friend of mine" not best friend. And best friend or not, a male friend shouldn't be giving a female friend whom is engaged tips on masturbating.


Regardless, so would it be best that she ask some random person?

I think it's better that he talk to her about it than she goes out and finds someone to do it for her.

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Quote: from Anonymous at 11:48 pm on Nov. 1, 2009

Quote: from Monroe at 9:43 pm on Nov. 1, 2009

I don't believe you should be talking about masturbation to this girl who is engaged.
And why not? Just because she's engaged doesn't mean she's suddenly not allowed to talk about sex, and both her and her fiance would agree with me on that... Besides, I'm one of the few friends she has that can talk to her without hitting on her (I like her, but in a platonic way).

That's still awkward, dear.

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Quote: from Anonymous at 10:48 pm on Nov. 1, 2009

Quote: from Monroe at 9:43 pm on Nov. 1, 2009

I don't believe you should be talking about masturbation to this girl who is engaged.
And why not? Just because she's engaged doesn't mean she's suddenly not allowed to talk about sex, and both her and her fiance would agree with me on that... Besides, I'm one of the few friends she has that can talk to her without hitting on her (I like her, but in a platonic way).

Because you're male, and she's engaged. Talking about sex is one thing, you giving her "tips" to pleasure herself is another. I don't believe her fiance would agree with that, unless he is an idiot.

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