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Because you're male, and she's engaged. Talking about sex is one thing, you giving her "tips" to pleasure herself is another. I don't believe her fiance would agree with that, unless he is an idiot.

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Quote: from Monroe at 11:45 pm on Nov. 1, 2009

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Quote: from SomeRandomKid at 10:44 pm on Nov. 1, 2009

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Quote: from Monroe at 11:43 pm on Nov. 1, 2009

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I don't believe you should be talking about masturbation to this girl who is engaged.

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  He's helping. He's her best friend. I think it's best that he does.

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 He said, "a friend of mine" not best friend. And best friend or not, a male friend shouldn't be giving a female friend whom is engaged tips on masturbating.

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Regardless, so would it be best that she ask some random person?

I think it's better that he talk to her about it than she goes out and finds someone to do it for her.

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I don't think she's a moron. She's not going to go out and cheat on her fiance, because of her sex drive. Also, I'm sure she has female friends she could talk, too. And I know for a fact she could google it, if she were really curious.

But she's not a little kid, she's a grown woman. She knows what to do, and what not do. It's not appropriate for a male friend to give her "tips on masturbating" while her husband is away.

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Quote: from Monroe at 9:49 pm on Nov. 1, 2009

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Because you're male, and she's engaged. Talking about sex is one thing, you giving her "tips" to pleasure herself is another. I don't believe her fiance would agree with that, unless he is an idiot.

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No offense, but isn't that rather close-minded?
Just because I'm male, I'm not allowed to talk about certain things? That's stupid.
I don't have any intention of having sex with her, or anything like that, and she and I both know it.

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If some girl, were giving my fiance tips on self pleasuring, I would be VERY angry. That is NOT something you talk about with a guy friend.

And it's not closed-minded. It's common sense. Plus, you're male. What could you possibly know about female masturbation? If you know nothing about it, what tips are you going to give her?

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Meh the biggest tip you could give her is to just have fun with it and do what feels good. Don't over complicate it.

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tell her to talk to her girl friends

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If some girl, were giving my fiance tips on self pleasuring, I would be VERY angry. That is NOT something you talk about with a guy friend.

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And it's not closed-minded. It's common sense. Plus, you're male. What could you possibly know about female masturbation? If you know nothing about it, what tips are you going to give her?

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I don't think she's a moron. She's not going to go out and cheat on her fiance, because of her sex drive. Also, I'm sure she has female friends she could talk, too. And I know for a fact she could google it, if she were really curious.

But she's not a little kid, she's a grown woman. She knows what to do, and what not do. It's not appropriate for a male friend to give her "tips on masturbating" while her husband is away.

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How can you have sex with someone and not know how to pleasure yourself is what I can't wrap my head around.

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Quote: from Monroe at 9:53 pm on Nov. 1, 2009

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I don't think she's a moron. She's not going to go out and cheat on her fiance, because of her sex drive. Also, I'm sure she has female friends she could talk, too. And I know for a fact she could google it, if she were really curious.  

 But she's not a little kid, she's a grown woman. She knows what to do, and what not do. It's not appropriate for a male friend to give her "tips on masturbating" while her husband is away.

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Give me a reason why it's not appropriate that's grounded in some kind of ethics. No one's had a problem with this thing before in my circle of friends, so I'm rather confused, and I'm not hiding anything.

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......Okay, over half of the people in this topic is telling you that it's not appropriate and whatnot. Why are you having such a problem believing that?

She doesn't need a MALE FRIEND giving her masturbation tips. She can figure it out on her own. It's not up to you to "help" her.

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Quote: from Monroe at 9:53 pm on Nov. 1, 2009

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I don't think she's a moron. She's not going to go out and cheat on her fiance, because of her sex drive. Also, I'm sure she has female friends she could talk, too. And I know for a fact she could google it, if she were really curious.

  But she's not a little kid, she's a grown woman. She knows what to do, and what not do. It's not appropriate for a male friend to give her "tips on masturbating" while her husband is away.

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 Give me a reason why it's not appropriate that's grounded in some kind of ethics. No one's had a problem with this thing before in my circle of friends, so I'm rather confused, and I'm not hiding anything.

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......Okay, over half of the people in this topic is telling you that it's not appropriate and whatnot. Why are you having such a problem believing that?

She doesn't need a MALE FRIEND giving her masturbation tips. She can figure it out on her own. It's not up to you to "help" her.

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I really don't understand why my gender is all that relevant here other than explaining my relative lack of understanding.
Eh, just forget about it.