so i love my best friend to death, and on holloween she went to a friends house. now every body was drinking except for her and she got pressured into going to third with this guy. now she really really regrets it, to the point where she is sick with herself and i dont know what to say to help her feel better. i dont need a long answer or anything but what would help you feel better? thanks
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agerask
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why exactly does she feel like this was a bad thing? i envy her. but regardless, i don't know what to do to help her feel better. just tell her hey girl. listen to me. you're smart, and you're pretty. next time, just say no. now you know exactly what you won't be missing.
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because she doesnt like him, and everyone there was drunk and extra frisky so she felt she couldnt say no
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because she doesnt like him, and everyone there was drunk and extra frisky so she felt she couldnt say no
trust me when i say you can ALWAYS say no. at least now she knows what kinds of parties to avoid in the future. and she knows what not to do if she does get suckered into going to them. just say no.
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switchfoott052
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just tell her that maybe her feelings are telling her that she should make a better decision next time and she's knows that now. at least she's not a whore and wants to do it again.
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