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Why I don't like confident girls..
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Seems people strongly disagree with me on this, and often I get insulted for feeling this way.

Confident girls often have a way of making it seem like they know you are lucky to be with them, and they are just there, even though if you left no biggie they could find anyone they want. There are levels of confidence and being confident in yourself is not a bad thing, but let's not be stupid, our society pumps into us what degree of confidence is best and it comes with a cocky arrogant attitude, I just don't want to be around someone who thinks so egotistically.

It would be awesome to find someone who wasn't confident or not confident, just kind of who they were and had no feelings about it, shows they always look outward instead of into themselves. But if I had to pick someone who wasn't confident would be preferred, it -can- be egotistical, that's when it's annoying, but that almost never happens. Usually it comes with modesty and they don't talk about it much.

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lol then you would love me, i'm not confident at all..

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no those are bitches...confident just have personailty

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If you don't like confident girls, maybe you should start going for fat chicks with low selfesteem?

Its not like you'll ever hook up with a confident, good looking girl anyawy.

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I agree completely man.

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Thing about confident girls is you have to make THEM seem like you don't really care about being with them and YOU can get anyone you want.  Watch them change in a second -_-()

Mind games are so much fun (mainly when you are not in the end of them   )

But in all seriousness, I know what you mean and it is annoying to see to be frank.


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Confidence doesn't always have to be overbearing.

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But there's a difference between cocky ones and confident ones. Cocky is annoying, confidence is good. At least they don't keep bitching about how ugly/fat/dumb/useless they are.

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Quote: from Anthem at 7:12 am on Nov. 5, 2009

If you don't like confident girls, maybe you should start going for fat chicks with low selfesteem?

Its not like you'll ever hook up with a confident, good looking girl anyawy.



Yes, because if she's not confident she's a fat chick with low selfesteem.

Why do people take offense every time I say I don't like confident girls? Maybe it's because they are confident girls themselves and when someone says they aren't their type they freak out and go in the offensive? Which makes me believe you aren't that confident.

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Im not confident at all.

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Quote: from Aimforthehead at 7:16 am on Nov. 5, 2009

Quote: from Anthem at 7:12 am on Nov. 5, 2009

If you don't like confident girls, maybe you should start going for fat chicks with low selfesteem?  

 Its not like you'll ever hook up with a confident, good looking girl anyawy.



Yes, because if she's not confident she's a fat chick with low selfesteem.  

Why do people take offense every time I say I don't like confident girls? Maybe it's because they are confident girls themselves and when someone says they aren't their type they freak out and go in the offensive? Which makes me believe you aren't that confident.


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Somewhat relevant



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Quote: from AmazingRed at 7:16 am on Nov. 5, 2009

But there's a difference between cocky ones and confident ones. Cocky is annoying, confidence is good. At least they don't keep bitching about how ugly/fat/dumb/useless they are.

My point exactly.

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Quote: from Aimforthehead at 4:16 pm on Nov. 5, 2009

Quote: from Anthem at 7:12 am on Nov. 5, 2009

If you don't like confident girls, maybe you should start going for fat chicks with low selfesteem?  

 Its not like you'll ever hook up with a confident, good looking girl anyawy.



Yes, because if she's not confident she's a fat chick with low selfesteem.  

Why do people take offense every time I say I don't like confident girls? Maybe it's because they are confident girls themselves and when someone says they aren't their type they freak out and go in the offensive? Which makes me believe you aren't that confident.


Wait, so I take offense because I am a confident girl....but I am not?

That doesn't even make sense.

Anyway i'm not mad, i think you are though.

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