My ex boyfriend and I were friends for a few months before we started dating. But we weren't close friends. I loved when he came around, even though when he did come around he made me so sad because he used me. We dated for a couple of months. He worked a lot and had school so we hardly saw each other and there was no communication what so ever. It was a pathetic excuse for a relationship. That ended about 3 months ago and I still think about him everyday. Somedays I am angry and I hate him. Others I wish I could still talk to him and miss him. Why is this? Why do I have mixed feelings for a boy who was never really around. I have no idea what I liked about him. How do I make it stop?
8:00 pm on Nov. 3, 2009
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Left Unspoken
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You love him, Deal with it.
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( Anonymous )
no thats not it.
8:03 pm on Nov. 3, 2009
Alique
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The best advice I can offer is if you don't have a chance at getting back together of having a good relationship, try to let it go. I know it's not easy but it's just going to be a waste of time if you're yearning for something unattainable. Try to think about other guys and focus your attentions on good things about yourself and other people.
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Maddie T
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I don't know. I feel the same way about this other boy. I had a big crush on him. Then he moved halfway across the country. He then asked me out and told me he'd liked me since he met me. THEN, he stopped communicating with me in any and every form. And I haven't talked to him in months, so how am I supposed to know what's going on or how I should feel about him?
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Everyday I was sad. He wouldnt let me get close to him. I will never date him again because I have given too many guys a second chance to the point I don't give them anymore. It makes no sense. There is nothing I like about him. But he won't get out of my head.
8:07 pm on Nov. 3, 2009
The Persuader
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I know why you can't stop thinking about him. It doesn't matter how little you knew him. The fact that you felt for him the way you did...is the only reason you can't help it but think of him. I'm in that position now and I know how you feel.
------- Last Christmas I gave you my heart but the very next day,you gave it away. This year,to spare me from tears, I'll give it to someone special.
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MauerMan
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I'm going through the same thing.. time is really the only thing that will help. Try to stop thinking about him. Shield yourself from references to him..maybe delete him off facebook, that kind of thing...so he's not popping back into your mind constantly. Try to keep yourself busy...it's helped me.
------- "Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind dont matter,and those who matter don't mind"
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