My girlfriend got drunk and went to a party. To get into the party she had to show hew boobs at the door, and I've been told she let the guy feel her up -- her boobs, that is -- to get in (it might have also happened in the party).
Should I be as upset about this as I am? I guess on a scale from 1-10, how upset should I be? Cuz I'm none too pleased
------- Jane, you ignorant slut.
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It's perfectly normal for you to be upset.
but you shouldn't break up with her for it or anything drastic like that.
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if i was you id break up with her. but consider the fact i over react to alot of things like this.
Post edited at 12:48 am on Nov. 4, 2009 by Rock Lobster
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flashing is not a big deal, and you shouldnt believe everything you hear
they're just tits, they are not special
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If she is that type of girl I would assume that you already knew it when you got with her. So you prolly shouldnt be mad. But if it was random and she never does stuff like that then decided whether or not to get mad by looking into yourself. Have you done things you are not proud of? Just to get somewhere. Or some laughs? things she would not like?
idk. I'd be pissed. But thats just cuz my gf isnt a slut like that.
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I'd be upset but I wouldn't be overly upset. About a 6 maybe... close to a 7.
If it bothers you, try talking to her about it. Express your feelings so that she is aware of how it affected you. Communication is how a relationship is able to continue.
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ya shes never done this ever before (to my knowledge)
and a good friend of mine told me about it because he thought I should know about her antics (he has no ulterior motive).
Ladies, would she have a right to be pissed if I let a girl feel up my junk? I think so.
------- Jane, you ignorant slut.
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If she is that type of girl I would assume that you already knew it when you got with her. So you prolly shouldnt be mad. But if it was random and she never does stuff like that then decided whether or not to get mad by looking into yourself. Have you done things you are not proud of? Just to get somewhere. Or some laughs? things she would not like?
idk. I'd be pissed. But thats just cuz my gf isnt a slut like that.
even if sluts were real, showing some mounds of flesh doesn't make you one. move on from high school
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Quote: from foxtrotsmith at 3:54 am on Nov. 4, 2009
ya shes never done this ever before (to my knowledge)
and a good friend of mine told me about it because he thought I should know about her antics (he has no ulterior motive).
Ladies, would she have a right to be pissed if I let a girl feel up my junk? I think so.
That's a bit different. Boobs aren't nearly as sexual as a man's penis.
Seriously, just talk to her instead of hyping yourself up with anger. You even said it was most likely a one time deal, as she is not known for it. She got carried away with her actions- it's nothing to overanalyze and work yourself up over.
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If she is that type of girl I would assume that you already knew it when you got with her. So you prolly shouldnt be mad. But if it was random and she never does stuff like that then decided whether or not to get mad by looking into yourself. Have you done things you are not proud of? Just to get somewhere. Or some laughs? things she would not like?
idk. I'd be pissed. But thats just cuz my gf isnt a slut like that.
even if sluts were real, showing some mounds of flesh doesn't make you one. move on from high school
lol wut? Has nothing to do with hs? ? ?
It has to do with self respect. Some can show their tits whatever. But a woman I date doesnt have to show her tits or get felt up to get in a club.
I used to know this girl who when she got real excited and was having fun, she'd flash cars and they'd honk.
Thats fine. love seeing the tits. but honestly. I would never date her. I think that the body is something sorta special. So they person your with should be the one to see/feel it. Not just any joe blow.
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flashing is not a big deal, and you shouldnt believe everything you hear
they're just tits, they are not special
It is kind of trashy. And to some people, they are special. Like, I'm just saying, she shouldn't have to flash her tits to get into a party.
Nahh I think it's fine that your upset. Like, I wouldn't consider it cheating. But if she'll do that to get into a party, does that mean she'll do worse for other shit.
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If she is that type of girl I would assume that you already knew it when you got with her. So you prolly shouldnt be mad. But if it was random and she never does stuff like that then decided whether or not to get mad by looking into yourself. Have you done things you are not proud of? Just to get somewhere. Or some laughs? things she would not like? 
