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boyfriend, together forever?
Replies: 13Last Post Nov. 5 3:34am by nik1
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i love my boyfriend so much it's been nearly 2 years and we can both see it lasting forever i can imagine marrying him and us having children, it's just we're going to different universities in september and it really upsets me, because i want to stay with him forever..

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and that's when it all goes down the drain, srsllly.

he says he loves you, but he'll be so bored holding his dick in his hand he'll probably start fucking other girls.

sorry, c'est la vie.


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aww. I know you'll get upset for sure, but hey, you'll miss each other like crazy so when you see each other again, it could be even better than before! Just talk to him alot via phone when his away

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i thought so too.. 4years ago when i met my gf..  i'd still like to marry her.. but i don't think it will happen if stuff go on like this..  sometimes, shit happens you know

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You can see it coming.

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Well,iff he feels the same way distance and diff.unis dont matter.

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You've been together two years yet you decided to go to different universities?

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Quote: from Stormblazer at 1:08 pm on Nov. 4, 2009

You've been together two years yet you decided to go to different universities?

Well there are no two universities that do teacher training and graphic design. You have to go to an art college fo graphic design..

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Depends how far apart you guys will be, but i would prepare for the worst if you are at either ends of the US.

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From experience, long distance relationships are quite difficult.
My bf and I were perfectly happy until we split for different colleges.
We broke up because he couldn't stand the fact that I chose to go to a different college.

However, distance is far only in the mind. It's close in the heart. If you guys decide to go to different colleges, remember that it is very possible to still love each other and maintain a strong relationship despite the distance. Loving someone means wanting the best for them. You want them to go to the school they want to go to because it should make you happy to see them reaching for their dreams and being successful.

Look at it as a test. distance will be a test of whether the love between you guys is true or not. if you're relationship is strong enough, it will get through this.

don't worry, things will work out the way they should. :)


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Quote: from forgottenmelody at 3:34 pm on Nov. 4, 2009

From experience, long distance relationships are quite difficult.  
My bf and I were perfectly happy until we split for different colleges.  
We broke up because he couldn't stand the fact that I chose to go to a different college.  

However, distance is far only in the mind. It's close in the heart. If you guys decide to go to different colleges, remember that it is very possible to still love each other and maintain a strong relationship despite the distance. Loving someone means wanting the best for them. You want them to go to the school they want to go to because it should make you happy to see them reaching for their dreams and being successful.  

Look at it as a test. distance will be a test of whether the love between you guys is true or not. if you're relationship is strong enough, it will get through this.  

don't worry, things will work out the way they should. :)

 



wow thanks for such a detailed response, i hope it works so badly, do you think we will lose the university 'experience' by being in a relationship?

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I think you two will work things out.  Anyone can make it work if you really want to.  And I applaud you for going to different universities.  A lot of people are too selfish that they keep there partners restrained and there is no growth.  They have no option and later on in life they might end up hating the other person, blaming them for never being able to pursue there passion/dreams.  You can do it! =) Goodluck!

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Quote: from InnocentTears at 4:20 pm on Nov. 4, 2009

Quote: from forgottenmelody at 3:34 pm on Nov. 4, 2009

From experience, long distance relationships are quite difficult.
 My bf and I were perfectly happy until we split for different colleges.
 We broke up because he couldn't stand the fact that I chose to go to a different college.

 However, distance is far only in the mind. It's close in the heart. If you guys decide to go to different colleges, remember that it is very possible to still love each other and maintain a strong relationship despite the distance. Loving someone means wanting the best for them. You want them to go to the school they want to go to because it should make you happy to see them reaching for their dreams and being successful.

 Look at it as a test. distance will be a test of whether the love between you guys is true or not. if you're relationship is strong enough, it will get through this.

 don't worry, things will work out the way they should. :)  

 

 



wow thanks for such a detailed response, i hope it works so badly, do you think we will lose the university 'experience' by being in a relationship?

that's also another issue that most long distance couples face. most people break up because they want to experience the most out of college. however, personally..i think it's very possible to experience college and still be together. it takes a lot of trust in each other for this to work though.


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Don't permit your long term goals to be interrupted.  You have usually one opportunity in life to get your education and don't screw it up.  If the relationship is right it won't matter if he is living in the same town or in a different country it will last.  Absence makes the heart grow fonder.

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