Also, if you two love each other and you are able to feel the love that the other person has for you..

I really love the other person but my problem is that since I was always close to that person in the past (best friend/sis), he tells me everything and I know that he's lost his V and i know well how many girls he has dated in the past, and their names as well...
but now we've realised our true love fo

r each other and have spent more time together.. the only problem is that wheenver i think about what the person has done with other girls in the past.. i sort of don't feel well and am put off by the thought of it. I feel less loved that I wasn't the first..
also, he has kissed/pashed a lot of other girls (not to mention the pics taken doing that with them) i've seen before.. and the words 'i love you and i'll never part from you' to some of his exs..
but that's in the past..

please help & sry if this is long. Not that long is it? :/

The thing about people today is that we all like to experiment. You really can't expect to be someones first anymore. Sure, it would feel nice if you were because you have strong feelings for him but in the end that's not how things work. The past is the past. You either have to accept that he has one or this relationship won't work. At least you know he's honest with you and you know all the things hes done.

I don't really see any reason for this to bother you so much. I'm sure you have a past, too.

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She gave me a pen.
I gave her my heart,
she gave me a pen.

My answer there is yes.

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It's not that long, no.

The thing about people today is that we all like to experiment. You really can't expect to be someones first anymore. Sure, it would feel nice if you were because you have strong feelings for him but in the end that's not how things work. The past is the past. You either have to accept that he has one or this relationship won't work. At least you know he's honest with you and you know all the things hes done.  

I don't really see any reason for this to bother you so much. I'm sure you have a past, too.

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Yeah you're right. I do have a bit of a past as well, but I'm still pure. I saved my virginity and would chose to lose it to 'him.' But still.. i feel like.... argh.. :/

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So basically you'rere asking, "would you date a non-virgin who has had three or more previous relationships?", right?

My answer there is yes.

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uh no.. what's the difference? They still aren't a virgin.. and plus i won't have strong feelings for any other guy besides him. The thing is, well yea.. if i lose mine to him, he'd be the first but i won't .. get me? so i don't feel special anymore..
and i really wished that back thten, i hadn't asked him whether he was still a virgin or not.. biggest mistake ever

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I think you have to realise that probably everyone you'll have feelings for these days has a past. That is why you shouldn't talk about your ex's, and as you get older it's only going to get worse. You just got to deal with it and keep in mind that he's with YOU now, not them.

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It just feels icky and weird that his ex has got their hands on him.. before i even got the chance too.. and he realises now that he doesn't love his ex and that he has always loved me.. and now he's telling me he loves me.. i don't know what to think anymore..

Let me just tell you, from the guys's persepctive, it's heartbreaking.

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The truth will set you free. But first, it will piss you off
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Would you still be with someone you love but they've also been in a relationship with a lot of other people
 and has lost their virginity before (not with you though..but they say they regret it in the past).

Also, if you two love each other and you are able to feel the love that the other person has for you..

I really love the other person but my problem is that since I was always close to that person in the past (best friend/sis), he tells me everything and I know that he's lost his V and i know well how many girls he has dated in the past, and their names as well...  
but now we've realised our true love fo

r each other and have spent more time together.. the only problem is that wheenver i think about what the person has done with other girls in the past.. i sort of don't feel well and am put off by the thought of it. I feel less loved that I wasn't the first..
 also, he has kissed/pashed a lot of other girls (not to mention the pics taken doing that with them) i've seen before.. and the words 'i love you and i'll never part from you' to some of his exs..  
but that's in the past..

please help & sry if this is long. Not that long is it? :/

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to keep it true... ITS THE PAST..

Stop hating on a person, for there past... if you love someone u dont care HOW Many they been with , but rather you want them to have you for ever, and for it to last longer than any ,  um to put it simple...

Move on about the past.

AND Be with them, and tell them you want to be there last.

theres the frist, and the last.

LAST Means the world, because its the person you love, and enjoy being with...so stop trying to "hate on the fact he /slept with other people.

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Quote: from Anonymous at 1:50 am on Nov. 4, 2009

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Would you still be with someone you love but they've also been in a relationship with a lot of other people  
  and has lost their virginity before (not with you though..but they say they regret it in the past).  

 Also, if you two love each other and you are able to feel the love that the other person has for you..  

 I really love the other person but my problem is that since I was always close to that person in the past (best friend/sis), he tells me everything and I know that he's lost his V and i know well how many girls he has dated in the past, and their names as well...
 but now we've realised our true love fo  

 r each other and have spent more time together.. the only problem is that wheenver i think about what the person has done with other girls in the past.. i sort of don't feel well and am put off by the thought of it. I feel less loved that I wasn't the first..  
  also, he has kissed/pashed a lot of other girls (not to mention the pics taken doing that with them) i've seen before.. and the words 'i love you and i'll never part from you' to some of his exs..
 but that's in the past..  

 please help & sry if this is long. Not that long is it? :/

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to keep it true... ITS THE PAST..

Stop hating on a person, for there past... if you love someone u dont care HOW Many they been with , but rather you want them to have you for ever, and for it to last longer than any , um to put it simple...

 
Move on about the past.

AND Be with them, and tell them you want to be there last.

 theres the frist, and the last.

LAST Means the world, because its the person you love, and enjoy being with...so stop trying to "hate on the fact he /slept with other people.

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this is true

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Quote: from doTHEchickenDANCE at 1:58 am on Nov. 4, 2009

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I think you have to realise that probably everyone you'll have feelings for these days has a past. That is why you shouldn't talk about your ex's, and as you get older it's only going to get worse. You just got to deal with it and keep in mind that he's with YOU now, not them.

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It just feels icky and weird that his ex has got their hands on him.. before i even got the chance too.. and he realises now that he doesn't love his ex and that he has always loved me.. and now he's telling me he loves me.. i don't know what to think anymore..

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oh god, then you might else get over it, because more then 77.6% of people in america has lost the Virginity.

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Quote: from ninxy1029 at 6:10 pm on Nov. 4, 2009

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Quote: from Anonymous at 1:50 am on Nov. 4, 2009

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Would you still be with someone you love but they've also been in a relationship with a lot of other people
  and has lost their virginity before (not with you though..but they say they regret it in the past).

  Also, if you two love each other and you are able to feel the love that the other person has for you..

  I really love the other person but my problem is that since I was always close to that person in the past (best friend/sis), he tells me everything and I know that he's lost his V and i know well how many girls he has dated in the past, and their names as well...    
  but now we've realised our true love fo

  r each other and have spent more time together.. the only problem is that wheenver i think about what the person has done with other girls in the past.. i sort of don't feel well and am put off by the thought of it. I feel less loved that I wasn't the first..
  also, he has kissed/pashed a lot of other girls (not to mention the pics taken doing that with them) i've seen before.. and the words 'i love you and i'll never part from you' to some of his exs..    
  but that's in the past..

  please help & sry if this is long. Not that long is it? :/

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 to keep it true... ITS THE PAST..  

 Stop hating on a person, for there past... if you love someone u dont care HOW Many they been with , but rather you want them to have you for ever, and for it to last longer than any ,  um to put it simple...  

 
 Move on about the past.  

 AND Be with them, and tell them you want to be there last.  

  theres the frist, and the last.  

 LAST Means the world, because its the person you love, and enjoy being with...so stop trying to "hate on the fact he /slept with other people.

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this is true

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lol ty

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