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Is she giving me signs?
I know, I know, but I need 3rd party insight
Replies: 5Last Post Nov. 9 11:18pm by helloworld
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I realize that these kind of questions get asked a lot, so I apologize, but I need some 3rd party insight on my situation.

Anyways, I'm friends with a girl who is a tomboy and I like her. We've been casual college friends since the beginning of the year, but recently, we've been spending a lot more time together alone.

I recently broke up with my gf and we were talking about our past relationships and giving each other advice on the opposite sex.  She has told me a few times recently that she might be interested in a few other guys (2 guys) whom she has hung out before, but because they were working through recent breakup or were very busy, there is a window of opportunity this week that she is certainly going to be single.

When we were talking, she starting mentioning herself in a few hypothetical situations, except these situations only make sense if she and I were the people being talked about.

Is she sending me signals? What do I do?


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Forget her.

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Quote: from xcutioners at 9:06 pm on Nov. 9, 2009

Forget her.

Please tell me you're kidding.


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Quote: from shyboyswin at 6:01 pm on Nov. 9, 2009

When we were talking, she starting mentioning herself in a few hypothetical situations, except these situations only make sense if she and I were the people being talked about.  

Is she sending me signals? What do I do?


It's tough to know if you're just reading something into nothing here without a few more details. Obviously you don't want to give us an exact word-for-word, but what exactly do you mean by "hypothetical situations" and what exactly leads you to think they "only make sense" if she and you are the people in the situations?


10:20 pm on Nov. 9, 2009 | Joined: Oct. 2002 | Days Active: 524
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I don't remember what she said exactly because I didn't realize the where she was going with the "hypothetical" questions until after answer a few. The questions she was asking me were about the way guys think, and in particular how long it takes for a guy to get over someone. I don't remember, but she was alluding to the fact that I was in a long term relationship and was wondering when I'm going to be over my ex when someone similar is right in front of them.

Like I said, she is a tomboy. Lately, she's been trying to dress a lot more to the styling of my ex (she died her hair jet black) and when she can't hang out because she is behind in her work, I usually end up hanging out with her anyways. She'll get none of her work done, I'll apologize for distracting her, and she'll say it's okay.


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In that case make a move. Any flirting going on yet between you two?

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