so ive been dating this girl for awhile and she decides she going to cut because of my smoking habit cuz her mom died of cancer i love this girl to death but i how she looks at every thing and this past week ive been stressed and i cant take it i have my own problems and now i have to deal with this i want to stay with her but i just cant handle this stress
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You have to tell her that you can't be responsible for you and her. Either she has to accept that you smoke or deal with her feelings in a productive way like talking with you about it instead of cutting herself. Honestly if she's doing something like that she may not be stable enough to be in a relationship. No matter how bad you feel about what she's doing if she doesn't agree to seek help for it you can't just go down with her ship.
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You have to tell her that you can't be responsible for you and her. Either she has to accept that you smoke or deal with her feelings in a productive way like talking with you about it instead of cutting herself. Honestly if she's doing something like that she may not be stable enough to be in a relationship. No matter how bad you feel about what she's doing if she doesn't agree to seek help for it you can't just go down with her ship.
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You have to tell her that you can't be responsible for you and her. Either she has to accept that you smoke or deal with her feelings in a productive way like talking with you about it instead of cutting herself. 
