LiveWire Network Peer Answers Peer Support Teen Forums Tech Forums College Forums 703 users online 222699 members 1094 active today Advertise Here Sign In
TeenCollegeTechPhotos | Quizzes | LiveSecret | Memberlist | Dictionary | News | FAQ
Member Spotlight
Booty n Tits
I haven't filled out my profile...
Days Active: 30
You have 1 new message.
Emergency Help
Until you sign up you can't do much. Yes, it's free.

Sign Up Now
Membername:
Password:
Already have an account?
Invite Friends
Active Members
Groups
Contests
Moderators
3 online / 53 MPM
Fresh Topics
  LiveWire / Teen Forums / Deep Thoughts & Random Musings / Viewing Topic

i need some help rewording this
Replies: 6Last Post Nov. 9 5:32pm by omgxitsxjosh
Welcome to LiveWire!
We're Stronger Together.
Join the Community
Single page for this topic Email Print Favorite
( Rock Lobster )


Connoisseur

Patron
Reply
so, my girlfriend feels like she bothers me with her every day problems, and they have been every day for a while now.  

im trying to explain to her that ya, it makes me feel bad when i come to vouluntary take time out of my day to pick her up from school, and she comes in with a terrible mood everyday. its just depressing
to see her in a bad mood when she gets in my car.  

i want to let her know that it bothers me, but i dont want her to feel like she cant come to me for help either. cus i cant think of a way to say this
to her without her feeling like she doesnt want to bother me with her problems.

im not gonna lie, her problems have been wearin me out, because i  
just got done with highschool and im pretty much being forced
to move out.

anyone else relate to what im saying?

Post edited at 5:22 pm on Nov. 9, 2009 by Rock Lobster

-------
Hell is not a place where you go if you're not a Christian, its
the failure of your lifes greatest ambitions...

-Immortal Technique


5:21 pm on Nov. 9, 2009 | Joined: Dec. 2005 | Days Active: 319
Join to learn more about Rock Lobster California, United States | Straight Male | Posts: 3,215 | Points: 7,031
LiveWire Humor
theyareAs


Visionary

Patron
Reply
Just ask her wats wrong, cheer her up, and you wont have to deal with it day in and day out

-------
So why did I do it? I could offer a million answers, all false.
The truth is that I'm a bad person, but that's going to change.
I'm going to change.

5:22 pm on Nov. 9, 2009 | Joined: July 2008 | Days Active: 319
Join to learn more about theyareAs North Dakota, United States | Straight Male | Posts: 4,895 | Points: 8,869
( Rock Lobster )


Connoisseur

Patron
Reply
i edited it cus i realised it didnt make too much sense.

its just im trying to help her out.. but its been really hard to help her
when i have problems in my life also. and i dont feel appreciated

-------
Hell is not a place where you go if you're not a Christian, its
the failure of your lifes greatest ambitions...

-Immortal Technique


5:23 pm on Nov. 9, 2009 | Joined: Dec. 2005 | Days Active: 319
Join to learn more about Rock Lobster California, United States | Straight Male | Posts: 3,215 | Points: 7,031
( Rock Lobster )


Connoisseur

Patron
Reply
Quote: from theyareAs at 5:22 pm on Nov. 9, 2009

Just ask her wats wrong, cheer her up, and you wont have to deal with it day in and day out

everyday i cheer her up.  she ends up laughing. but like it takes a HUGE
effort to get her there. and its really tiring after having long days

-------
Hell is not a place where you go if you're not a Christian, its
the failure of your lifes greatest ambitions...

-Immortal Technique


5:24 pm on Nov. 9, 2009 | Joined: Dec. 2005 | Days Active: 319
Join to learn more about Rock Lobster California, United States | Straight Male | Posts: 3,215 | Points: 7,031
Total Destruction


Guru

Patron
Reply
Tell her that you don't always want to hear her negatives. Tell her that you want to hear some good news for once.

-------
The ___... it brings the ___
Mein Brüder ist Josh

5:24 pm on Nov. 9, 2009 | Joined: May 2008 | Days Active: 331
Join to learn more about Total Destruction California, United States | Straight Male | Posts: 18,136 | Points: 23,426
Aliboo


Soothsayer
Reply
yeah just suggest that seeing you should make her feel better, although she isnt allowed to depend on you to make her happy. does that make sense? she needs to find in her itself to make the most out of everyday and not unload on you.

-------
"Tell them to look up, tell them to remember the stars." Renee, TWLOHA.com

5:24 pm on Nov. 9, 2009 | Joined: Oct. 2007 | Days Active: 414
Join to learn more about Aliboo Ohio, United States | Label Free Female | Posts: 6,733 | Points: 11,604
omgxitsxjosh


Professional
Reply
Tell her that you don't mind being there for her, that you are there for her to talk to about anything. However, she needs to learn how to figure out her own problems, and draw a line between discussing it with you and just bitching about it.

Also mention that you don't feel appreciated when you listen to her. Ask her to be more considerate since you're being supportive.

-------
C'est la vie...


5:32 pm on Nov. 9, 2009 | Joined: July 2009 | Days Active: 83
Join to learn more about omgxitsxjosh France | Bisexual Male | Posts: 1,088 | Points: 2,277
Single page for this topic Email Print Favorite

Quick Reply

You are signed in as our guest.

Looking for something else?
 

  LiveWire / Teen Forums / Deep Thoughts & Random Musings / Viewing Topic