me and my boyfriend are 20 and 22 years old. we've been dating for three years and we talk about our future together.
today he sprang a really weird question on me. his best friend is gay and he asked me if i would feel weird if he froze his sperm for her. he said he wouldn't act like a father to the child, and it wouldnt be cheating on me.
i'm really weirded out. i mean even if its true and if he doesn't act like a father, in my head its still his kid.
4:34 pm on Nov. 9, 2009
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Tell him that he should be the "uncle" to the kid, don't be the father.
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and he could be legally reponsible for any child and have to pay for him or her
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well, i kinda feel like that gay chick should just adopt one or two of the many kids that are already on the earth without love and care...
but honestly, i don't know, if i was in your shoes i'd have to evaluate if this is something that means a great deal to this friendship and how important this friendship is to him.
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dudee she can fucking adopt
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Yeah I'd feel weird too. Like sorry to the lezzo friend, but I'd have to say no,
That's creepy and weird. Not to mention she could sack his ass for child support later on if she wanted to.
I would say that's a no. Whether he acted it or not, the kid would still be his.
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Quote: from omgxitsxjosh at 4:51 pm on Nov. 9, 2009
That's creepy and weird. Not to mention she could sack his ass for child support later on if she wanted to.
I would say that's a no. Whether he acted it or not, the kid would still be his.
thats exactly how i feel! i'd always feel like...wow, thats his other kid.