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I've run out of terms for sexuality
Seriously, should I just call it genderqueer and be done with it?
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I identify as "mostly straight" usually, but that doesn't begin to cover it.

I'm primarily attracted to girls, yes, but am also ok with tertiary relationships with guys. I'm not attracted to 'masculinity' - neither the psyche aspect nor the superficial aspect. Neither am I attracted to the feminine psyche (only the visual aspect).

I'm also attracted to things that are gender neutral - when someone looks like neither gender really - but not when people look like both genders at once, if that makes any sense.

Genitalia is optional in my definitions too - I can easily be legitimately attracted to a girl with a dick as a girl with a vagina, and likewise, I'm not that attracted to guys, whether they have dicks or vaginas (confused yet? all that I speak of is possible and exists).

And the above is just the tip of the iceberg really.

So what the fuck do you call this? I'm about ready to just call it genderqueer and be done with it.

Edit: I'm not necessarily looking for a label... just frustrated at the lack of terms for sexuality. Would be nice to not have to explain this every single time.

Post edited at 3:06 pm on Nov. 9, 2009 by Stormblazer

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Do whatever you want.

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Isn't that pansexual?

Just attracted to anything .. that's a human.

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Why do you need to put a label on it?  Even "Label Free" is a label.

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Why do you need a label? Be and do what you want to do.

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pansexual.

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Pansexual.

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i think you're over analyzing yourself. you like what you like, and what you don't, you don't. don't waste your time trying to stick a name to it.

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Quote: from Skifox at 4:00 pm on Nov. 9, 2009

Isn't that pansexual?

Just attracted to anything .. that's a human.


But I'm not- I'm only very minorly attracted to guys, despite that there was a lot more to it than that, there is no question that I am not attracted to most males very much (though I've met people that created exceptions).

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Quote: from justbadnews at 4:01 pm on Nov. 9, 2009

i think you're over analyzing yourself. you like what you like, and what you don't, you don't. don't waste your time trying to stick a name to it.

Well, I do that already. It'd be nice though to have a term that I can use that's accurate enough that I don't have to explain this every single time.

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Just give up trying to find a label to call yourseld

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