Quote: from LucidAssassin at 2:52 pm on Nov. 6, 2009
Quote: from Just Waiting Here at 2:47 pm on Nov. 6, 2009
Try and accept the fact that you don't need a relationship to define you as a person? A lot of people feel like they "have to" be in a relationship... personally, I don't mind being single. I dunno, it's hard to change mentalities. You may just need more time or hobbies or something to do even though your single so that you can realize it's not a necessity.
its not so much that i feel i need it i just think it would be nice because it would make me feel.... special i guess. i just kinda want to know what its like i guess
That's understandable, and it makes sense how finding someone might make you feel special. But as you know, that takes time. If you want a real relationship, it won't necessarily just pop up like that, you know?
I guess in this case, you should just remind yourself that the time will come. Acknowledging that it may take a while, but it will happen at one point might make you less preoccupied with it?
But like I said, it's hard thing to get rid of... many people think about relationships like that..
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