Me and this guy have been in a relationship for almost 10 months. We haven't been dating the entire time (we broke up for a few months, but we were still talking and hanging out) He is in college 3 hours away from where I go to high school, but things have been going great until about a week ago. He got really stressed out because he hates where he goes to school and said he wanted to move really far away. We decided we would "take a break" and we both said we weren't going to hook up with anyone, he just said he needed time. I love him and care about him so much. I went to see him the weekend before last and things were great. We were physical but we didnt have sex. I'm a virgin but he isn't. Everything was perfect until a few days later when he got really stressed. The other day, he told me he really didn't know if he loved me and that it could be we were just trying to prove to everyone that we would work. A few minutes later he said that he thought it was just his mindset right now (I think he ment he only said that bc he is so stressed) He told me he thought he was scared to hangout bc he didn't want to have sex and then us have to break up when he transfers really far away. Last night we were talking and he said he really wanted to have sex with me last time but he held back. We will probably see each other in a few weeks and he said he wanted to have sex but he didn't want to if i was scared of him moving or if i wanted to wait till we went back out. Do you think I should have sex with him when he comes home since were "on break?" and also do you think he really cares about me? also what exactly does "take a break" mean?
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that is really complicated, no offense but it sounds like it isn't going to work (since he is moving away). he probably does care about you a lot, but if you have sex with him and it doesn't work out then you will probably regret it.
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Quote: from purplesquid91 at 10:58 am on Nov. 4, 2009
that is really complicated, no offense but it sounds like it isn't going to work (since he is moving away). he probably does care about you a lot, but if you have sex with him and it doesn't work out then you will probably regret it.
he actually doesn't know if he is moving or not. He hasn't even talked to his parents about it yet.
oh, well either way the decision is entirely up to you. if you feel like it is the right time then go for it.
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that is really complicated, no offense but it sounds like it isn't going to work (since he is moving away). he probably does care about you a lot, but if you have sex with him and it doesn't work out then you will probably regret it.
